He initiated a conversation last Tuesday
I initiated a conversation last Thursday
I initiated another conversation Saturday
Today is Monday
It’s pretty normal for us only to talk every other day, but usually the person who texts first alternates. My biggest fear in this relationship is being too clingy or needy or annoying in any way, but I know for a fact he loves me, so am I just overthinking things and being insecure? If so, should I just wait and see if he texts me, or initiate another conversation? I miss talking to him a lot, but I want to make sure I don’t seem needy and don’t bother him if he’s busy.
Updates
3 mo
I talked to him on the phone and told him that basically he doesn’t need to be afraid to reach out first, because I love talking to him and I’ll never be doing something that’s more important than talking to him, and that I’m afraid of being too clingy or annoying him. Turns out, he feels the same way :)
What Guys Said
Yo don't sweat it too much girl, I'm sure everything's cool with you and your boy. Guys can be kinda hit or miss with keeping in touch sometimes.
It's only been a few days so I doubt he hates you or anything. Dudes are just lame like that, we suck at communication sometimes. He's probably just busy with other stuff and isn't thinking about checking in.
I wouldn't trip about seeming needy either - it's normal to miss talking to your boo when you're used to chatting more. As long as you aren't constantly bugging him 24/7, texting a couple times a week ain't being clingy at all.
If you wanna talk to him, I'd say go for it and hit him up. A quick "hey cutie, just thinking about you" or something cute like that isn't gonna come off as desperate. Give it til this evening and if he doesn't reply then maybe he really is just busy with things.
Try not to overthink it till you know for sure. I'm sure he still likes you, most dudes just suck at the lovey dovey stuff sometimes. Keep your head up!
Have you watched Master Kadir Mısıroğlu's Saturday Talk dated December 20, 2014?
https://www.youtube.com/embed/Bm_qxOv7AmkHave you tried asking him?
No, because I feel like I’d sound absolutely insane if I did