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I have a huge crush on a coworker. It would be hard to know if he did like me because he is friendly to everyone and teases everyone.

He will tease me in front of other people. For example, I jokingly said that I’m into guys with beards and he asked everyone else “does anyone have a razor?”

We flirt with each other and we make very strong eye contact. Sometimes his glances last a few seconds. On a night out recently, we had a few drinks and basically admitted that we liked each other.

The other day at work we were talking and I said “you clearly hate me”…to which he quietly said “…. immensely”

And then this morning he was teasing me and I said “you really hate me don’t you?” And he smiled and said “no”

I have a huge crush on a coworker. It would be hard to know if he did like me because he is friendly to everyone and teases everyone.

He will tease me in front of other people. For example, I jokingly said that I’m into guys with beards and he asked everyone else “does anyone have a razor?”

We flirt with each other and we make very strong eye contact. Sometimes his glances last a few seconds. On a night out recently, we had a few drinks and basically admitted that we liked each other.

The other day at work we were talking and I said “you clearly hate me”…to which he quietly said “…. immensely”

And then this morning he was teasing me and I said “you really hate me don’t you?” And he smiled and said “no”

I was chatting with my work colleague and I said to him, “well you clearly hate me don’t you?”

His reply was “yes…immensely”

Bearing in mind that we told each other that we have feelings for each other on a night out.

I was having a chat with my male colleague the other day. We flirt a lot, and we make strong eye contact when talking. When we are close, he will look down to my mouth and at both eyes. I’d say I’m pretty confident that he is into me.

So we were chatting and he joked about being nice to me. I said “well you wouldn’t be nice to me because you clearly hate me”

He then said “immensely”

I know he was joking about, could this be a sign that he likes me?

Sorry, I posted this question earlier but didn’t really put any context in it.

I have a crush on a coworker. We have a flirty relationship and we get on really well. We have been there for each other through difficult times. He has shown mild jealousy at times and is affectionate outside of work when we’ve had a few drinks. He was the one who organised my birthday presents and card (for my 30th)

Recently, on a night out, I admitted to him that I like him more than a friend. I asked him if he felt the same way and he kept saying “you’re a lovely person”. When I asked him to answer the question, he said “yes I do” and sounded annoyed.

He was hot and cold with me at work after that but things have gone back to normal. In fact, when I was on holiday, one of our coworkers asked if he misses me and he said straight away “it’s very quiet”

Today, we were just chatting and it was just the two of us. I said to him “well you clearly hate me a lot” to which he said “yes…. immensely”

I’ve heard guys say the opposite of what they really mean when teasing. Was this him saying that he likes me?

Me and the guy at work were messing around and chatting. We have a flirty relationship together. We were teasing each other and I said “just because you hate me”

He then said quietly, “yes…. immensely”

Could he be saying that he likes me? I’ve heard that guys say the opposite of what they mean when flirting.