Do you think my colleague has feelings for me?

[Anonymous]

I have a huge crush on a coworker. It would be hard to know if he did like me because he is friendly to everyone and teases everyone.

He will tease me in front of other people. For example, I jokingly said that I’m into guys with beards and he asked everyone else “does anyone have a razor?”

We flirt with each other and we make very strong eye contact. Sometimes his glances last a few seconds. On a night out recently, we had a few drinks and basically admitted that we liked each other.

The other day at work we were talking and I said “you clearly hate me”…to which he quietly said “…. immensely”

And then this morning he was teasing me and I said “you really hate me don’t you?” And he smiled and said “no”

Yes

No

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh sis, this guy totally has it bad for you! That's way more than just friendly coworker teasing if you ask me. Some signs that make me think he's into you:

- Flirting openly and admitting you like each other when you had drinks? Come on, no dude says that if there aren't real feelings involved.

- The long lingering eye contact and smiles? Hello, he's practically undressing you with his eyes every time! Guys don't stare that hard if they ain't feelin' it.

- The playful banter and teasing is like textbook workplace dating foreplay. No guy stresses a girl he doesn't like.

- He may say he "hates" you in the moment, but when you call him on it he smiles and says "no" instead? Total tsundere thing to do, meaning he's shy about his crush.

I say go for it girl! You already confessed feelings, so why not casually ask him to lunch just the two of you and see where it leads? You got nothing to lose and it's clear you both want it. Don't let this hot coworker situation go to waste! Let me know how it goes!

[tinkerelle_36]

You guys pretty much admitted to liking each other already. I think that says a lot about his feelings for you. If you are still confused maybe ask for clarification on what he meant by that, whether it's romantically or platonically. You got this!

[Anonymous]

Nothing here suggests that.

[strateguy632]

nope