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Hi Guys & Gals,

TGIF!

So it’s Casual Friday and I’m sporting my oldest pair of jeans and my favorite heels. Nothing special, tbh, but a young, nice-looking fella stops his bike, takes out his AirPods and calls over, “Hey, those are GREAT jeans.”

It was a funny sort of thing to say to a stranger, but I just offered a little smile, said “Aww, thank you,” and kept walking, not thinking too much of it…

And that’s when I heard it… that extra base a guy gets in his voice when his eyes are still on you. “You’re… welcome.” And for several seconds I felt as if a laser pointer was directed at my backside. Goodness….

As I walked the rest of the way back to the office I wondered if I ever gave someone an indirect compliment to avoid saying what I wanted. Yeah, perhaps once or twice, but y’all know me… I usually go for the jugular with my compliments and critiques.

What about you?

So I have three examples of when I think my crush was complimenting me

1) He was telling me that he can’t be bothered to talk to other people. I said, “well I must be pretty awesome if you’re talking to me” and he said “yes, absolutely, you passed the test with flying colours”. However, when he said this, he didn’t make eye contact when normally he holds eye contact

2) He was saying that his mum didn’t like his beard, and he said to her “I’m half of you so I have your looks”. I said, “I’m glad that I didn’t get my dads beak of a nose, I have my mums eyes” and he replied with, “you’re blessed then”

3) He was talking about how exotic the weather was. I said, “I’d put my bikini on but think everyone would be visually offended”. As soon as I said this, he started to walk off, but he smiled and said “you’re chatting shit, you are”

Was he complimenting me in these situations and was he subtly hinting that he finds me attractive?