Married women act strange around me what could be the intention?

[Summeroflove]

Number one it goes against my morals and values to sleep with someone whose married. I’ve just noticed that many women act very different around me when they are with their husbands verses being away from their husbands. I will say it’s NOT all married women, just some.

For instance when they are near their husbands they may not be very talkative, more reserved, maybe even more very matter of fact, among things like that. But when they’re away they are laughing, giggling, finding reasons to talk to me, and I don’t know it feels a little weird to be honest. It’s just a massive contrast when they’re with their husbands verses when they are away.

This includes women who are strangers for instance waking at the store or the mall. Sometimes a man and a woman will be walking together the wife will be eyeballing me or looking at me either over her shoulder or even behind her husbands back sometimes even smiling.

A lot of times I want to think there is a innocent exclamation for it but in the back of my mind. I am wondering if they are trying to signal much more…

[Finchie40]

They find you attractive and they probably want to be in your arms , I hate to talk about myself , but for some reason I am a married women magnet as well , and I ended up in bed with some of them , because they lied to me and said they were single when they weren’t. Not all females’ are sweet and innocent , some of them have a wild side or they just aren’t happy with their spouse or partner so they are drawn to someone else. Sadly this type of shit happens more than we like to think it does , but it is what it is. When I busted the married women I slept with and asked them why they cheated on their husbands with me , they all said pretty much the same thing that their husbands either treats them like shit and gives her barely any attention, or her husband is a Simp that she doesn’t feel safe and protected by. I can’t speak for all girls’ but a majority of females’ want to be with a man that she can look up to and feel safe and protected by , a guy that takes the lead and has masculine energy that she craves for. So if you are a good looking guy that looks like you have your shit together, girls’ will be drawn to you. She c’s something in you that you probably have no clue what she is seeing in you lol , when a beautiful girl approaches me out of the blue and starts talking with me or flirting with me , I am sometimes dumbfounded by why she approached me to begin with. We can’t read minds but I just assume she finds me attractive. So I just talk to her like I would anyone else with respect. if her and I connect well and we both know we are interested in each other , I’m going for it. Sometimes we end up having sex the same day we met and sometimes it’s a day or 2 later , I don’t set a time limit with a girl I am attracted to , if the chemistry and connection is there , it’s there. If she is lying to me , then that’s her problem not mine , if she wants to cheat on her husband or boyfriend with me , so be it , I can only go off of things she tells me. Hoping she is being honest , but sadly that isn’t always the case. If I find out she was lying to me , then oh well , thanks for a Good time but not a long time. So I had my fair share of married women and girls’ that had boyfriends’ already , because I can only go off of what they tell me. I have experienced and witnessed this happening so many times to the point I no longer give a shit , if she is beautiful not my eyes and treats me good , that’s all that matters , I love sex so I am more than likely going to fuck her with the intentions of seeing her more and more. But again not always the case

[Anonymous]

You must be tatted all over
Chicks dig that stupid shit




Until they realize you you prefer not to be the bread winner in the relationship and work at McDonalds as the fry guy


Then it’s time for nerdy guy
Then they can move out of the trailer park.

[Summeroflove]

I’m not but I’ve seen it happen where a woman marries a good upstanding man. He provides. He loves. He’s loyal. He’s a good dad.

To be cheated on with criminals. Deadbeats. And losers

[Summeroflove]

I’ve seen it happen time and time again. It’s honestly sad because these men put all the effort into a relationship just to be shit on.

Narcissists will sleep with anyone they even find remotely attractive. It’s just sex to them.

[Summeroflove]

I’ve seen men too witj a absolutely beautiful woman whose loyal kind and caring. Cheating with girls who are EHHHH….

[fartingspinster]

Hmmm, you must have features that really attract females. Especially the ones walking with their husbands and having them turn their heads and smile at you.

But I understand what you mean about the inconsistent behavior with and without their husbands... im sure it can be unsettling. Sort of like how covert racism is hard to pinpoint or confront, and this sounds like a covert lie when they are behaving differently. They aren't being obvious about it but you can tell the difference, and it puts you in a tough spot because you can't confront them about it.
Given your morals... it puts you in a conflicting situation, because although you won't ever have sex with a married woman, their behavior doesn't make you feel good either - because where is the line?


Anyways - id say you definitely get girls interested and a smile or attention from you prolly makes them happy. Just like how men smile at a pretty woman or do extra services for her when she's their customer. And attention from her (even if they are married) can bring them happiness

[Summeroflove]

Where is the line is a good question. Many people get into messy situations and then cross a fine line and set someone off all the sudden.

[Nikki1989]

It is usually because in some relationships, one partner might feel pressured to suppress certain aspects of their personality or conform to their partner's expectations. I have noticed that some people need to be away from their partner for their true self to come out, which is sad.

[Summeroflove]

I agree that’s definitely a possibility. I just don’t notice is as much with men. Sure there may be some off color remarks they don’t say around their wives. But they don’t completely change.

I don’t know. But that’s a very good possibility.

[Summeroflove]

But I agree too. I mean even with men sometimes they have emotions that are build up because they never felt they could express them even at home. Things they may say that would upset their wives so they only say it around other people.

It’s just sometimes when you get a weird feeling…. And you sort of feel like you should keep your distance.