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Search Results: how to get guys to not hit on you
Was he hitting on me?
I recently went to a work colleagues wedding and I happened to bump into a old work friend who'd left to pursue his photography career. We used to be really close friends. We both bounded over having a lot in common....
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I deal with this feeling?
Long story short, I liked this girl, I told her the year prior to covid but she was in a toxic relationship at that time that she ended up leaving 2 months later that I didn't know about, pandemic hits and since LDR was...
Anonymous
(30-35) Boyfriend said his ex is better looking?
My boyfriend and I were playing truth or dare drunk. We were asking various questions and one question he happened to ask was who was bigger. I only ever had 2 s*x partners, where as he had many. I told him the truth and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does wearing a wedding ring seem to attract the opposite sex to you more than when you weren't married and wearing a wedding ring?
Sometimes a wedding ring 💍 is like a guy or girl magnet 🧲 when you wear them. When my boyfriend was single, he hardly ever got hit on. But when he got married and sported his wedding ring the women wouldn't stop...
Ladies, how do you feel being hit on by multiple guys at parties or events?
Guys, how do you feel seeing other guys hitting on women you're interested in? Part of me feels predatory and slightly embarrassed to be another guy hitting on the woman that's always getting hit on at some sort of event...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you ever wonder if you opened Pandora's box, and maybe you should have left well enough alone?
So this is a cliff notes of my mother's family: - mother abandoned me at 8, even though she had custody arrangements of seeing me every Wednesday after school and every other weekend. - she lived on the same road as...
19magic
Guru Age: 29 I’m Black but looks India, how can I go about dating black guys?
I’m always getting mistaken for South Asian. Which I don’t mind but I mostly get hit on by every other race but my own… black. I understand that I may not be their cup of tea but I’m wondering if the mistaken race thingy...
Anonymous
(25-29) The grocery store pickup?
Girls, would you mind if a guy hit on you at the grocery store? I've done it a couple times. One was married (didn't see the ring) the other was flattered but had a boyfriend. Anyways, my questions is what do you expect...
red324
Guru Age: 37 Guys, Me and this guy use to joke around and always have a friendly banter. We recently hooked up, and now he's being different? Why do guys do this?
He'd been trying to hit me up for about 4 years now. I guess we would low key flirt but I was never interested in sleeping with him cos he's a bit of a playboy. But also cos I did enjoy the type of Friendship we had and...
Anonymous
(30-35) I don't feel like paying my girlfriend's bill anymore?
Here's an interesting little scenario. I am 23 and I have been dating a 21 year old for about 7 months now. Things started off really, really good and were great up until April. Now back in January I was speaking to my...
Anonymous
(25-29) I don't think I like women very much? Am I a sexist?
I wouldn't say I hate women. I love my mom, my wife, my little sister. I have a few female friends, I don't really have like an open vendetta against women. I just feel like most are annoying, full of shit, and don't...
nitsuj86
Xper 5 Age: 39 Can a woman rejected a guy that she found attractive if she was fresh out of a toxic relationship?
I know this may come off as I can’t let go, but I’m just curious. First off, I know how rejection looks and feels but this is the first time it didn’t make sense to me, which I come be totally delusional about it. A girl...
Anonymous
(25-29) Confusing relationship with my boyfriend, what should I do?
This is weird to say, but I’m f16 confused and kinda discontent with my relationship with my boyfriend m16. The first time we met we hit it off, we were talking and texting within a month. By the next month it was full...
Scootergirl111
Xper 1 Age: 19 How am I supposed to trust men when this happens?
Why do married men cheat? And why am I a reoccurring target. The amount of times this has happened…I’ve lost count. And the stereotype is men cheat when they’re older and bored and whatever - no, these are young...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys what would be your perfect partner?
So I've been going down the YouTube rabbit hole lately, but this comment really hit me, and I wanted to get your thoughts on it. The youtubers were talking about relationships and a wife writing in saying I'm the...
19magic
Guru Age: 29 Does he see me more than a friend?
This guy I work with says he's not looking to date anyone until he gets his life together. Like get an apartment, get his EMT certification, etc. which is completely understandable. However, he always says hi and wants to...
Anonymous
(25-29) What message is this guy sending to people - anyone can get away with murder if you fit a certain criteria which they like?
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/soldier-to-be-sentenced-for-murder-in-texas-protest-shooting_n_645a2556e4b094269baf82bf Soldier To Be Sentenced For Murder In Texas Protest Shooting As Gov. Seeks To Pardon Him A U. S....
legalboxers
Editor Age: 49 If you have a preferred type of man or woman you want to date would you let that all go to date someone the total opposite?
So my boss hired a new guy to work at our warehouse, he didn't really talk to anyone except for the other men in the warehouse but for some reason we hit off fast. We literally became friends, we always hangout, have...
Anonymous
(30-35) Could he possibly be interested?
My ex and I had a really bad break up a few years ago. I didn’t meet his family but everyone he knew essentially blocked me so I wouldn’t reach out to him. However, a year or so later I got a shoutout from a page and his...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you think girls get beat up by their family as often as guys do?
What do you think? I know many of you had parents or siblings who never hit you but what do you think? In my family, my parents had 3 boys and 3 girls and the guys definitely got beat up more by our parents and each other.
Rab1901
Yoda Age: 35 