Could he possibly be interested?

[Anonymous]

My ex and I had a really bad break up a few years ago. I didn’t meet his family but everyone he knew essentially blocked me so I wouldn’t reach out to him. However, a year or so later I got a shoutout from a page and his brother requested to follow me (maybe he forgot who I was). He didn’t reach out or like any of my posts but just stayed a follower and still follows me until now. It surprises me because he only follows a few women, the rest are business pages and family of his. Recently I switched gyms and that same brother goes to my new gym. Him and I are often looking at each other in the mirrors and holding eye contact at times when walking past one another. We go at the same time and usually do stay in the same areas. Im not sure if he likes me but Im starting to like him. I can't approach him because I don't know if he remembers who I am, or what his brother has said about me. He was also watching when another guy was hitting on me at the gym with a straight face through the mirror. is it a possibility that he could possibly be interested as well? Oh also, him and his brother do not get along too well. If you think he's interested then why so?

[Curious_teen07]

He's either super into you, or in a really fucked up situation, he's doing all this to she if youve moved from his brother. Your ex mightve asked him to do this to see how well your coping

[BoopBoopBeep]

Or he's keeping tabs on you for your crazy ex. I don't know if your ex is crazy or not.

[Asker]

Ah id think that as well in any other situation but ex hates me with a passion😂😂would never want to keep tabs

[BoopBoopBeep]

No mentally insecure people may hate another and still keep tabs on her. "I want to make sure I'm doing better than she is" post breakup. The new man showing interest in you? Not worth the drama. He's still friends with the ex. If the ex did something horrible to you and he is still friends he tacitly supports it. If you're the one who f'ed up the relationship then it's all good. You need to seriously determine which it is. I wish you the absolute best of luck.

[Asker]

Thanks so much!!!

[spartan55]

Who knows? Talk to him and find out

[Asker]

I cant😭😭its too embarrassing

[spartan55]

Goof lord, how is it embarrassing?

[spartan55]

Your reasons for not approaching him are lame excuses.
Sounds like you don't want to accept any risk or do any work.

[Asker]

because its like he can tell his brother or the family and its just embarrassing. whereas if he were to make a move then it would be easy.

[spartan55]

Tell them what? You are all adults I assume? You are being ridiculous. But yeah, go ahead and sit around and do nothing.