Guys, Me and this guy use to joke around and always have a friendly banter. We recently hooked up, and now he's being different? Why do guys do this?

[Anonymous]

He'd been trying to hit me up for about 4 years now. I guess we would low key flirt but I was never interested in sleeping with him cos he's a bit of a playboy. But also cos I did enjoy the type of Friendship we had and didn't wanna ruin it.

Recently he got my number off my cousin cos "he wanted to prank me" (bullshit). And from then he would text me if I was keen.. I gave in 🤣🤣 and finally slept with him and now he's acting different. WHYYYYY?

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We don't joke like we used to, he doesn't come near me as much, there's less eye contact.. I feel like this is just another one of his wham bam thank you ma'am moments maybe 🤷🏿‍♀️

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We hooked 3 days ago and the next day I saw him at the park and that's when i noticed the difference in body language

[spartan55]

Instead of burying the guy with your player playboy label think about this: he probably feels very awkward which is partially driven by the fact that he doesn't know how you feel. Have you the post-sex discussion with him? That's something that has to occur if any relationship is going to continue.

[Asker]

Trust me he is a playboy and he knows it too 🤣🤣 he's been around the block. I just didn't think he'd act different after considering how well we got on. I just wanna hear opinions about this..

[spartan55]

What do you mean, 'been around the block'?
I'm telling you he feels awkward. So, you aren't to talk to him about it?

[Asker]

He's slept with a lot of women.. We haven't had time to really talk since and he's back at work (mines) so won't see him until next week..

[spartan55]

Not sure how you know that, but nonetheless. Doesn't sound like you are too interested in clarifying anything with him anyway.

[Iron_Man]

How’s he acting different? What is he doing?

[Asker]

We don't joke like we used to, he doesn't come near me as much, there's less eye contact.. I feel like this is just another one of his wham bam thank you ma'am moments maybe 🤷🏿‍♀️

[Iron_Man]

That’s horrible for years and this guy is a screwball still

[Iron_Man]

Talk to him

[Avicenna]

Sounds like he got what he wanted

[Asker]

Yeah feels that way 🤷🏿‍♀️

[In_Trance]

Must be something you're saying or doing