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Trump has lost more manufacturing jobs than gained with Tariffs. With Supreme Court about to rule against him and make him give back what little he has brought in with Tatiffs. You do understand even if Tariffs worked Americans don't buy American made products because they are higher. That is why American Compnaies left in the first place , cheaper labor. You must pay Americans more money , include paid days off, more for Holidays , sick leave, insurance, and pay unemployment insurance. (By the way even with Tariffs it is cheaper to still make products in foreign countries). Plus Trump said Americans are not up to the task for manufacturing and wants foreign workers to those jobs (real reason is that foreign workers work for less). Plus you have AI/Robots for routine manufacturing. SO not many jobs for Americans created and Price will still be higher than foreign products. This is why it won't work.

By the way unemployment just went up over 4% with fixed stats , it is really 20% unemployment. You can look at Debt clock page and look at who is working and who isn't.

Simple question right? I will concede that falling in love with someone isn't 100% a choice, its a combination of attraction, and chemical responses. But continuing to love someone i believe is a choice.

Let me explain why i believe that.

Love needs to be nurtured. To maintain the relationship, you can't just expect the "Spark" to be there. Both sides need to make effort. Both sides need to do the things that maintain connection.

For example, Every morning when i wake up, i wake a half our prior to actually needing to get up so i can get extra cuddle time with my wife. When i come home from lunch i hug her, and tell her how much i miss her. When i come home at the end of the day i do the same, and then we cook together.. the important term here is Together. Hell even my furniture choices have centered around making sure that even when we are just watching a show together it means cuddle time. Additionally i took my grandfathers advice seriously, which was "Never stop dating your wife" So i make sure to do things like date nights, and spontaneous gifts, And by gifts, i mean things she's been wanting, to things as simple as chocolate. I tell her she's beautiful every day, and i tell her how much i love her every day. And this isn't one way, My wife does similar stuff for me.

Bottom line, if i chose to stop doing all of that, my wife would first think that there was something wrong, Then she would think that i was angry with her, and finally she would think that i dont love her. It would essentially kill the marriage.

Love, Marriage, And everything in between takes effort, Marriage is hard work, Its remembering to do the little things. Its making sure above all else that you have open lines of communication.

A lot of people fail to comprehend that, and i believe this is the reason for the horrific divorce rate.

See the following poem. it explains it quite well
https://hellopoetry.com/poem/1959983/love-needs-nurture/