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I got a ballot in the mail written under my name more than one week ago before we headed on our way to vacation. I thought I left my ballot on the table. But nope, my stepdad allegedly threw the ballot away in the trash and I asked him where it was, he apparently didn't have a clue. My mom finally gave me hers since she hasn't voted since the first Obama era and that she isn't into politics. I voted, and I also turned in my ballot via the mailbox (also my first time voting by mail).

I felt like an even bigger idiot just realizing after I signed that my mom's electronically written name was on the envelope AND that I wrote my name and signature on top and my signature in the middle just above my mom's name. Basically, "if the voter is unable to sign" I got to be her technically-unauthorized voting assistant, literally voting as the son of the "voter".

I don't feel like "our" vote is going to be counted. My envelope for my own ballot that I was supposed to have is gone forever! Nowhere to be located in our house.

It's October 23rd and the voting ballot will be casted a few days after November 8th.

I am from California.

It’s true that men are more likely to turn to unhealthy, self destructive and even violent means to deal with repressed emotions. More alcoholism, drugs, crime, fighting, risky activities, etc. Shorter lifespans too

Now if we have productive means to deal with our emotions e. g. sports, meaningful work, exercise, projects, inventions, hobbies, etc that can be a good thing. But even that can only go so far in my opinion.

My approach is that men should absolutely seek help but do it PRIVATELY. Join prívate mens groups, get counseling, attend private support groups, etc. But don’t go around telling people about it unless it’s someone you can 100% trust (best friend or a family member). Don’t go into details about it with the woman you are dating either.

We have to put on a different face in public and especially around women.

Personally I am so f*cking fed up with women who keep encouraging men to “open up” about their feelings and emotions. It’s has to be the most insidious shit test of them all. Once a man does this she feels relief that he is more “relatable” since he is acting more like a woman. But at the same time she loses attraction and RESPECT if he acts this way.

Most women have no idea how important it is that they want women to RESPECT them as real men. That is subconsciously the biggest Freudian motivation for men to act the way they do (for better or worse). Yet women want to destroy that for the short term “relief” they get for seeing a man get emotional.