not sure how to deal with this or if I should be this angry or what to do next.
Long story short, I live in a 2 bedroom house with my partner. Originally when we went to move in we were only meant to be roomates. So we each made a room for ourselves but actually ended up getting together before we moved in. It's been just over a year and a half and things have been going well. When we said about having our own rooms, it turned into the whole flat it ours and we both rooms are ours. However of course in one room she bought the bed and in the other I've bought a bed.
Today however we had a big argument and we usually sleep in one room, its the one with the bed she bought.
She ended up saying I don't want you to sleep in my room tonight or my bed tonight get out. On one hand, I get it hers bed so I can't say really say no but on the other hand as a couple where we share everything. I don't know I feel disrespected and not treated nicely. I'm not just some dog that she can tell to go into the other room.
I wanted people's advice on the matter, because on one hand its her bed I get that on the other hand, I still don't think I should have been treated like that. Part of me when she asks me to sleep in her bed when she calms down tomorrow is to want to say screw that, you kicked me out I'm staying in mine now.
The big argument we had was really stupid as well, we had an argument over her home town.. my work said I can't work there and gave a reason as to why... she just hammered me for more questions about it, got worried about her home town, started taking out her worry/anger on me, I got upset and it's been a long standing issue said you live here now, but you keep worrying 24/7 about your home town if you hate it here so much, why don't you move back as you won't ever be happy anywhere else. I apologised, but she kicked me out of the bed. Been multiple times she has brought up about her home town being better, moving back etc. Its got to me
Long story short, I live in a 2 bedroom house with my partner. Originally when we went to move in we were only meant to be roomates. So we each made a room for ourselves but actually ended up getting together before we moved in. It's been just over a year and a half and things have been going well. When we said about having our own rooms, it turned into the whole flat it ours and we both rooms are ours. However of course in one room she bought the bed and in the other I've bought a bed.
Today however we had a big argument and we usually sleep in one room, its the one with the bed she bought.
She ended up saying I don't want you to sleep in my room tonight or my bed tonight get out. On one hand, I get it hers bed so I can't say really say no but on the other hand as a couple where we share everything. I don't know I feel disrespected and not treated nicely. I'm not just some dog that she can tell to go into the other room.
I wanted people's advice on the matter, because on one hand its her bed I get that on the other hand, I still don't think I should have been treated like that. Part of me when she asks me to sleep in her bed when she calms down tomorrow is to want to say screw that, you kicked me out I'm staying in mine now.
The big argument we had was really stupid as well, we had an argument over her home town.. my work said I can't work there and gave a reason as to why... she just hammered me for more questions about it, got worried about her home town, started taking out her worry/anger on me, I got upset and it's been a long standing issue said you live here now, but you keep worrying 24/7 about your home town if you hate it here so much, why don't you move back as you won't ever be happy anywhere else. I apologised, but she kicked me out of the bed. Been multiple times she has brought up about her home town being better, moving back etc. Its got to me
