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I ask this with the upmost respect and to women only as I am not a woman and cannot and will not speak on their behalf but I’ve observed a phenomenon where I see average guys getting with women I can only dream of and that’s absolutely great and I’m happy for them, one of my best friends looks exactly like little xan down to the last detail and gets girls left and right and non stop and since we’ve been friends has dated at least 40 different beautiful women, some of which have straight up said they would have sex with me if given the chance while dating him but don’t actually talk to me after they break up with him. Now I take care of myself and would say I’m a handsome mixed guy and I haven’t had a woman show interest in me in forever, no dms, no glances from women just like me, and I’m left absolutely perplexed in a sense. it’s just an observation and if this does apply then why?

I'm not interested in her in any way as she to me is just a close a friend. I know recently that her and her husband have had a few problems plus i know from her he is abroad on a work trip.

But just yesterday she sent me multiple shots and videos of herself trying on different outfits - all of which she was looking very seductive in (skin tight dresses, cleavage on display, bum out giving me full 360 twirls etc). I had asked her where she was going and she said she did a clothing haul. In each video she was asking for my opinion.

We do usually send each other memes which are funny and of the banter nature but after this event, one she sent me asked "if I was with you for 24 hours and I couldn't say no blah blah". I didn't respond but this has led to me ask and post this.

There's a lot of occurrences now in hindsight looking back that I should've noticed but I didn't pick up on but I would like some people's advice. Apologies for my ignorance also. Not much experienced in the women and dating scene as much as I'd like.

I just broke up with an Italian girl I was dating. I saw photos of her going out with friends in party clothing. God knows what she’s doing whether she’s talking to more guys, kissing dudes etc... There’s no way to find out.