I'm concerned my married friend likes me? Need opinions from other girls based on her behaviour?

[OhGreat]

I'm not interested in her in any way as she to me is just a close a friend. I know recently that her and her husband have had a few problems plus i know from her he is abroad on a work trip.

But just yesterday she sent me multiple shots and videos of herself trying on different outfits - all of which she was looking very seductive in (skin tight dresses, cleavage on display, bum out giving me full 360 twirls etc). I had asked her where she was going and she said she did a clothing haul. In each video she was asking for my opinion.

We do usually send each other memes which are funny and of the banter nature but after this event, one she sent me asked "if I was with you for 24 hours and I couldn't say no blah blah". I didn't respond but this has led to me ask and post this.

There's a lot of occurrences now in hindsight looking back that I should've noticed but I didn't pick up on but I would like some people's advice. Apologies for my ignorance also. Not much experienced in the women and dating scene as much as I'd like.

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[Oliverlogan263]

Ok wow, that is a tricky situation man. Sending those kind of pics and videos is definitely overstepping some boundaries. And that meme about being with you for 24 hours? Red flag.

It sounds like she might be going through some stuff with her husband being away and all. But taking it out on you like that isn't cool. You said you're just friends and you don't see her that way. I'd have a real serious talk with her and set some clear limits. Make it clear you care about her as a friend, but the flirty stuff has to stop cause it's disrespectful to you and her marriage.

If she gets mad or denies anything's going on, maybe you need some space from her for a while. Protect yourself, you know? Don't get dragged into something that could mess up your life. Friends should support each other, not cause drama. Hopefully she'll realize what she's doing and give you both some space to think without temptations around. But don't feel bad about standing up for yourself, man. You got this.

[Avicenna]

You need to set boundaries. If you think something she did is inappropriate for a married woman, tell her.

[sage2021]

Being married for cheater's doesn't mean much anymore. She wants sex from you. She's a slut! She's doing things with you married women should not be doing.

You need to stop this with her before someone gets hurt. It's fun now, but you can't respect a slut can you?

[KymberliB]

I would tell her it makes you uncomfortable and that you only view her as your friends wife Period !! Don't have to be mean but this can be mis interpreted and that's not good for anyone

[OhGreat]

She isn't my friends wife. She is my close friend who I met from work. I've met her husband too. Do you think my concerns are justified then?

[KymberliB]

I'd say just stop responding to anything about how she looks in anything it's just not a good idea and everyone has problems that's in a relationship it's just human nature but the whole thing seems a bit shady to you or you wouldn't have posted so you know the answer to your own question alteady

[incorrected]

Are you genuinely daft? She's married, it doesn't matter what you say, she's flirting with you and she shouldn't be. She is a slut who doesn't respect either her own or your marriage/relationship. If you're just checking so you can make your move then go ahead cheater, otherwise just admit to yourself what is plainly in front of you.

[SweetCountryGirl123]

Back off. Leave her alone. Ignore her even.

It's not that you're in the wrong from the sounds of things. But she definitely is. And the worse thing you'd want a label as, is some douche that fucks another man's wife when the guy's not even there.

It's really her own fault for not having standards given her lowly sluttish whorey behavior & marrying the first guy who asked her out.

[strateguy632]

2nd.,