Should I be concerned that my husband's Facebook status still says "Interested in Women" after over a year of marriage and 4 years in a relationship?

Question

My husband claims he hardly uses Facebook. Since being married we both said that we would delete our accounts. Out of curiosity I looked one day to see if his account was active again and sure enough it was and still is. I asked him about it and he basically brushed it off as nothing. However, most of his "new friends" he's added are single females. Well most of his friends are females. Also, his status still says interested in women. When I asked him to update it and change it if he still chooses to periodically use Facebook, he said,"no". Brushing me off as if I'm insecure, etc. I turned the question around to ask him how he would feel if I went against what we originally planned and hadn't or refused to change my relationship status. He said, "not good". Need help with this situation.

Answer 1

Anonymous

Do the same to him - reactivate your FB and then add him and TONS of hot guys as 'friends' until he agrees to erase his profile. This is a deeper issue though. It's about respect and integrity shown to the one you're married to. FB is not important and if he says its not then no fear in erasing it right? - YOUR FEELINGS ARE IMPORTANT. MASSIVE RED FLAG.

Answer 2

SpicedPumpkin

Xper 6

No, it just means he's straight. It's basically just listing his orientation. Does his status say single or married?

SpicedPumpkin

+1 y
I don't have Facebook anymore so I don't know if it's changed. I could be wrong. I know it used to be interested in and relationship status were separate and interested in was just the orientation.
Asker

+1 y
His status says neither single or married. But I don't believe that option is still there.

Answer 3

SpicedPumpkin

I don't have Facebook anymore so I don't know if it's changed. I could be wrong. I know it used to be interested in and relationship status were separate and interested in was just the orientation.

Answer 4

Asker

His status says neither single or married. But I don't believe that option is still there.

Answer 5

BumbleDeev

Yoda

'Interested in women' isn't a relationship status. It's your sexuality

Answer 6

RichardTX

Xper 5

So it says he's "interested in women" and that bothers you? So does that mean you would much rather have him interested in guys? Your title makes no sense.
Also, him adding females on his facebook is natural as long as he's not flirting then I see no wrong.

Asker

+1 y
No, maybe you didn't understand my title because it makes plenty of sense. He's married so there should be no interest in women. There is an option of I'm Married. T
Cerate

+1 y
From my point of view i think nobody give a F about it. I dun even bother changing anything on my profile. Because that thing is not important to me at all.

Answer 7

Asker

No, maybe you didn't understand my title because it makes plenty of sense. He's married so there should be no interest in women. There is an option of I'm Married. T

Answer 8

Cerate

From my point of view i think nobody give a F about it. I dun even bother changing anything on my profile. Because that thing is not important to me at all.

Answer 9

TheSpartan | 754 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

The interested in women option is just facebook's way of saying gay or straight. It doesn't mean anything.

Answer 10

Despondency

Yoda

Probably not, if it's been that way for 4 years.

Despondency

+1 y
Wait, let's say yes, because that's more fun.

Answer 11

Despondency

Wait, let's say yes, because that's more fun.

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