Because he doesn’t value and respect you and he doesn’t appreciate you , he just likes the convenience of you , if he truly loved you and was happy with you in the marriage with you , he wouldn’t be wasting his time checking out other girls’ period , he honestly would be focusing and putting his time into you and fixing what he feels is missing from the relationship with you. How is your sex life with him? If you have a great sex life with him and he is doing this to you. , then this right here shows his true colors, that he doesn’t value you , if your sex life sucks then he might be just checking out girls because he feels you don’t value him , that right there will show what kind of person he truly is , and it shows what he more than likely does to you , when you are not around, behind your back. Ask yourself this question? How would he feel , if you were checking out other Guy’s and you were secretly playing on your phone checking out and talking and flirting to other Guy’s behind his back? I guarantee he would flip the fuck out , and be upset and pissed off at you , so I hate to break it to you , but you married a selfish person that only thinks and cares about himself , that only loves what he can receive from you , he doesn’t wear your shoes like he expects you to wear his , sadly to say, and this is one of the main reasons most relationships do not make it , because it’s selfish behavior. So he truly doesn’t love and value you if you have been nothing but a sweet loving wife to him , , because he only loves and values himself. My ex wife did this shit to me , after we were married for a long time , she use to be so sweet and loving to me , the intimacy and affection between us wasn’t even an issue , but as time went on , her personality changed on me out of no where , the intimacy and affection started fading , she was barely ever in the mood but she would throw me a bone here and there to keep me thinking everything was alright But she wasn’t the same girl to me anymore , she would say rude things to me and then be nice to me , when it was convenient for her , I never denied her intimacy and affection but she had no problem denying me , my gut instincts knew something was off , to find out she was secretly checking out and flirting with other Guy’s behind my back while stringing me along acting like everything is alright so she can pursue her selfish behavior and weighing her options. I should of divorced her right then and there the second I saw a flirty text from a guy pop up on her phone , she tried playing it off that he was just joking , but sadly it wasn’t a joke to me , but I trusted her thinking she loved me and our marriage and kids but sadly that was a joke. if it wasn’t for My gut instincts , i would of never knew what she was doing behind my back , little did she realize I was on to her , her cell phone was all the answers I needed to figure out why her sudden change in personality towards me and that’s how I honestly busted her red handed , if I didn’t see that text I would of never knew , her cell phone helped me track her meeting a co worker at a hotel room , so i immediately filed for divorce and had all the evidence I needed to take her ass down in court , but again I wish I did it sooner. . Sorry to say this to you , but You sadly will never experience true love , if you stay with him, , because he only cares about himself , selfish people only care about themselves , when push comes to shove. You are best to have a sit down talk with him and put your foot down and tell him the truth , that you saw him checking out other girls’ on his Facebook and tell him the truth on how it made you feel, if he gets all defensive, which he will , because he knows you caught him red handed , and he will try to cover up his actions the best he can , and tells you it was nothing , and tells you he is sorry and for you to please forgive him , that he loves you with all his heart you are best to stand your ground and tell him No you don’t , if he says to you , that you are getting carried away and taking this way out of proportion and tells you that you don’t trust him? Then you are best to say you are right, I don’t trust you , anymore , like I use to , because I would of never knew you were checking out other girls behind my back in the first place , if I didn’t catch you red handed on your phone , so not only do I not trust you anymore, I no longer feel respected by you as well , so If the tables were turned , you would feel the same exact way I feel right now , so stop talking out your ass , there is no love here. If you loved me , you wouldn’t be checking out other girls and wasting your time with other girls period. your husband will try to sugarcoat this every which way he possibly can , but the truth is , he is clearly talking out of his ass , Demand him to give you his phone and tell him I want to hold on to it for a few days , if he looks like a deer in headlights. Or Makes excuses that he needs his phone , He is cheating on you period , whether it’s physical or mentally cheating , he is still cheating on the marriage he choose to be in with you. The truth is he isn’t going to change , so do yourself a favor and Get out while you are ahead and do not waste anymore of your time thinking he will change. This has got to be your decision not mine. I just wish I had advice when I went through this shit with my ex. I honestly kick myself in my own ass , for not calling the divorce attorney right away , when I first found out she was secretly flirting with other men on her phone , because I thought love would save our marriage , Sadly it doesn’t , The only thing that saves any relationship is trust and respect for each other , making each other your top priority , removing selfishness for each other , resisting temptations for each other , sadly your husband doesn’t do that for you , so my advice is to get out while you are ahead and don’t waste anymore of your time with him especially if he doesn’t give you his phone. If he doesn’t give you that phone then that’s your answer to end it , call a divorce attorney and when you finally go to court , they will take his phone and they can track everything he has been hiding from you , Do not tell him they do that , I found out my ex was keeping a lot more secret from me than I realized , Cell phones and social media has pretty much damaged relationships, because people are soooo fucking selfish
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It looks like he has wandering eyes. He’s probably one of those guys that likes to check out other women, even though he’s taken.
It doesn’t necessarily mean he will physically cheat — but if he’s checking out other women it means that he’s not fully captivated by you.
There’s a lack of passion and excitement in the relationship and that needs to reignite for him to be fully focused on you.
As for him looking at pornstar-looking women, there’s a very high likelihood that he has some sort of porn addiction if he can’t even stop doing that while you’re making dinner.
As for the porn addiction, if that’s the case, it’s important to figure out why does he want to escape to porn? Is there something he’s unhappy about his life? Is he unsatisfied in the relationship? Is he stressed out? What is causing him to escape and cope through porn?
Probably Catfish even Who Have FB Him to Request Friends, Also Ones Who FB Say "You may know" and His own Friends Girls... and Also I Am Not Shocked He is On Other Sites. xxoo
He don't love you.. if he did he wouldn't be looking at other girls..
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I find sometimes, we have to give the people we are with a little taste of their own medicine just to see how they'd react.
I recommend doing the same. Pull up some hot guys that are half naked on Facebook and let him see you doing it.
If he takes issue with it, then you can explain, now you know how I feel? If he asks what you are doing, just say, I saw you doing the same thing, but I'm not about to hide when I do it.
See what he says. If he gets pissed, then let him be pissed for awhile. Sometimes, it's the only way a guy can learn, that he can't be two-faced about these situations.
Everything isn't going great if this is going on. Going into denial isn't healthy. Why does it have to be a fight? Communicate with him. You can say something like I saw you looking up women on fb the other day and it made me feel insecure. Can you tell me why you were doing that?
he's looking for Halloween costumes?
that be a necessary fight if it is one , so if you are afraid of doing that, then there is a problem still under wraps.
You need to ask him. Stop ignoring something that bothers you. We don't know why he's checking other women. Men like to check other women tho married or not.
He shouldn’t be doing anything on there he would be ashamed of. You guys should be able to swap phones. Talk it out.
I hope I have that kind of trust one day. “Babe, I’m a dirty fucking horn dog. But you’re the only bun for me.”
I think he needs to give you a reason why he looks women up on Facebook. He should be respecting you better, and I wish you best luck on this matter.
We'll always like looking at women unless we are gay
I don't think requires deep analysis. You know why.
You're 32 and you can't answer this question for yourself?
Because all men cheat sooner or later. They are all pigs.
Talk about it and resolve it.
Otherwise, it will fester and turn ugly, destroying what you have now.Probably looking up an ex out of curiosity or is looking to cheat on you it's my logical conclusion.
Don't know why you look pretty cute. Guess he is bored or something
, maybe that is why your sex life is so good
He probably has erection problems and doesn't want to tell you.
So you plan on just ignoring it?
That’s suspicious to say the least
cuz men suck
He is looking to cheat.
Maybe he knows them?
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