What does it mean if your husband is looking up a bunch of woman on Facebook, please read?

[Anonymous]

What does it mean if your husband is looking up a bunch of woman on Facebook? I'm ignoring that fact that i saw it briefly while I walked up to him from behind the couch to give him somthing... he turned off his phone pretty quick and I don't need an unnecessary fight. So im not bringing it up... everything is great. Our sexlife is great... But I am hurt by it.

[AviatorTom]

He most likely got an ad for French women on his phone. It's very common for guys to get these kinds of ads, I get them all the time... and ignore them. No, I am not interested in foreign women looking to get married, but I might check k out their pictures.

Being curious, like most guys are, he clicked on the ad and was looking at pictures of beautiful French women. Knowing you might get upset when he saw you, he quickly closed it.

My guess is that he may go back and check out the pictures again... good source of material when he masturbates.

[Asker]

He had his search history up on Facebook. And I saw at least 5 different woman... but my question is.. I'm right there making him dinner.. why is he looking at other women's profiles right then? I don't understand. I think that's so disrespectful

[RedInnocent68]

Oh, probably looking up girls he likes. Could be from work, could be exes. It doesn’t necessarily mean anything, just curiosity. (Come on girls, I know you do it too. Either yours or your partners…) if you do want to broach in an indirect way, reverse it. Try, ‘I’ve been thinking about… Would you be alright if I…’ or ‘would it hurt you if…’ Reading between the lines, he’ll figure it out.

[Asker]

They are sexually suggestive infuencers and models

[RedInnocent68]

So, no one he knows in real life then?

[A_Bell]

Maybe he's curious about the people he used to know.

As for reacting, there are a lot of private (not secret) things I keep to myself. If you kept a private diary, would you want anyone reading it? What if it logged private thoughts about your relationship?

How would you like every one of your thoughts read out to everyone on a screen? You don't need to know everything about your spouse. I think it is unhealthy to have such little trust that one reads something into a block to one's curiosity.

[Asker]

There more like sexually suggestive models

[Asker]

I do trust him that's why I'm not bringing it up

[A_Bell]

He is looking at a model? Or someone he knows?

[Asker]

Instagram infuencers models who are naked or half naked

[Asker]

But he turned his phone off sooo quickly when I passed him a drink. Like I'm right there Why is he looking up other woman's profiles who are half naked while I'm making him dinner?

[A_Bell]

He likes women, lots of guys do, even if they pretend not to. I prefer my husband to be open about it. I know he finds other women attractive, but our relationship isn't just that, it's an emotional bond. If anything, him seeing a provocative picture of another woman awakens his desire of me.

Men are wired funny.

[Cheerfull009]

As your sex life is wonderful, then No need to worry, men just pass their time, seeing different women