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I’ve been seeing a girl for about a month now. We planned a night together, but she told me she was seeing friends beforehand. So I told her I’d meet her there and we’d go from there.

Her side: You arrived with your friend thinking we weren’t going any longer. Her and her friend helped me get into this event and I didn’t even thank them. Apparently I didn’t even say hi to her. I was playing the cool guy card with my friend and was walking around doing my own thing instead of being with her. “When you come with someone you stay with them”. Not long after at the bar upset at me giving her no attention and when I came up to talk to her it was the worst timing possible because she was eating and that’s a sacred time/bad convo time. I left and she claims I was planing to do that the whole night and not stay there. And lastly I didn’t come back to her place to stay over even though yesterday that was the plan! And I didn’t even reach out to her the day after when she thought I would.

My side: Came with my friend cuz it’s a group thing, she said ok over text. She sent us used tickets from her friend so I went in before and came to say hi to everyone while also worried cuz my bud wasn’t. Said thanks to her friend for the ticket and she’s chill. I’m 99% sure I said hi to her within the group at first and if not that’s my bad. Asked her about going the next event solo and she said no and going home early. Gave her the alternative for next weekend, can chill and enjoy the night. She was chatting with friends and I didn’t wanna intrude with my bud so I let her be. Id come up to her in small groups and she’d walk away after. My friend and I started doing our own thing sensing the vibe. She was pissed at the bar talking with her friend, when solo I asked if she wanted to come by my buds birthday briefly and she said no. Not long after I put my hand on her and she removed it in front of someone, then I said my goodbyes. Finally, not going to sleep over when vibes are horrible!

Me and my girlfriend have been together for around 9 months and got into a situation yesterday.

Me and my girlfriend want to eventually get married but there's one issue. My soon to be wife wants to have traditional benefits while being a modern woman.

Let me explain.. Early in our relationship my girl professed to me that she wants to be a stay at home wife. Since she told me that, I realized that we were compatible. I wanted to provide for her and pay the bills and utilities.

The problem arises here. Yesterday, my girlfriend then told me she wanted to be a corporate career woman. We had a conversation about it and I told her, she told me before that she wanted to be a wife instead.

The huge issue here is that, my girlfriend wants me to pay all the bills, groceries, etc while working a corporate job for 60 hours a week, and travel the world while I take care of the children.

The deal is that my money is her money

And her money is her money only.

I told her, if she gets a job she'll have to pay 50/50 and she got really upset with me.

My question is, am I wrong in this situation?

I (23M) texted my mother (47F) and father (47M) saying that I want to quit my job at an auto shop because my boss (46M) has been getting more into my privacy and I was just on my phone writing a comment to another person on Snoop Dogg's post that was easily interpreted as political, and my boss was peeking in asking me if I was blogging as I was writing a comment during my walk-in to work. My mother told me not to be bothered by him and to just say "that's private [name]," and I told her it was basically about a comment I just wrote on Snoop Dogg's post and he was just asking me nosy questions. My mom said, "maybe he's being friendly." I can't say no to him, he always gets bothered when I'm political even in private but he is actively political too, a very conservative anti-Democrat type. My mom said not to let it upset me and that maybe he's just trying to socialize with me. I told her I regret ever following my personal pages on the TikTok business page (from my shop on the work phone), and that while my boss doesn't really mind, it's getting on my nerves now. My mom said, "Then unfollow those so he doesn't see. Keep work [life] and personal [life] separate."

My dad said something similar, saying, "It's ok, he's [a] good guy, don't trip." He agreed that I should stay away from politics, but he just made a huge meme out of an overused Mitch McConnell joke that even nonpolitical pages use. My mom is actively political, and so is my boss, so it's hard for me to distance myself from politics. Plus, the vast majority of my followers on my TikTok pages are really that highly into politics.
Most of my family and the people around me hate or at least dislike Joe Biden. I'm not a fan of him either, but unlike most, I sympathize with Biden supporters.