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This is triggering for me, traumatic and maybe long, I just need advice?

I have been with a man for nearly 30 years. We never married and had children who are grown up. He first started hitting me at 16 years old and was emotionally abusive by saying things like I'll tell you parents you did...
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(1) What's the best (respectful) way to refuse a guy's attention w/o bruising his heart? + (2) Why do guys bother with a much older gal?

I've got a strict height+age requirement for guys -- yeah, like kids @ a theme park. (Don't dwell.) At a recent church social (everyone on their best behavior, even the wolves-in-sheeps-clothing types) a sweet-faced...
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Why is there too much preference for a boy among several men?

While I don't doubt some women can have preference for a baby girl, it's not as much as men towards boys. At least most of us already have a name chosen for a boy and don't obsess too much about how the girl will be just...
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How to I move on from him? Stuck in a toxic cycle but we can't leave each other alone? ?

I’ve been seeing Cam, a guy I used to work with at a pub where he’s the manager. He’s got a reputation for sleeping around and had an on/off relationship with the pub owner's daughter. He recently had a brief crush on a...
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He kissed me but he has a girlfriend?

Hey everyone, I need your help and advice — this might be a bit long. There’s a guy from my uni who was my crush for 2–3 years. During that time, we both dated other people. Later he moved to a different city after...
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Why we risk trust even after it’s been shattered

1. Because love doesn’t shut off like a switch Even after the betrayal, your heart remembers the laughter, the late-night talks, the way they once made you feel safe. Love holds on, even when it hurts. 2. Because hope is...
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33M, living at home - Is it even worth trying?

I feel like the world is passing me by, I'm getting older, and I feel like I'm missing out. I'm 33M living at home with parents so I can afford to pay off debt. I work full time, have benefits, take care of my own...
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When did the standards of love become so blurred?

When did love become so low? People who actually love you don’t get burned out for taking care of you!! Yet I have had people tell me, you just want a caretaker or a maid! Like… Cuz in that case, people with...
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How does one just let things happen naturally?

Lately, I’ve been feeling this kind of… quiet desperation. 32 years old and alone. Like I go through life doing what I’m supposed to, minding my own business, nonchalantly, but deep down I feel stuck — like I’m waiting...
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Is my girlfriend trying to look better for me?

So I’m in a long distance relationship. We met online. But went on vacay together. And one of the things that upset me is that she didn’t take pictures of us together. And she took some of me alone. She also doesn’t like...
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Let things happen naturally?

Lately, I’ve been feeling this kind of… quiet desperation. 32 years old and alone. Like I go through life doing what I’m supposed to, minding my own business, nonchalantly, but deep down I feel stuck — like I’m waiting...
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Why did this random interaction happen at the mall?

I like to just walk around the mall sometimes, Today I was walking alone and there was a group of 3 or 4 teenagers walking in front of me. Completely out of nowhere one of them looked back at me and he this...
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German guilt in WW2 explains their misplaced support for Israel but how to explain the rest of the world supporting Israel?

Today alone Israel aid organisation murdered 60 people waiting for food handouts. Isn't that crazy aid organisation are murderers? And 150 injured And 18 died from famine How does the world explain allowing this...
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Do you think guys get the same support as women do after a break up/divorce?

Usually the stereotype sees women getting swarmed with support from friends, family and especially other men; while the guy is all alone. In my case though I think I have been surprised at all the support I am getting,...
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Do you ever spend time in silence?

How do you handle silence? Do you ever spend time in silence? Do you ever spend any time alone without any music playing and the TV is turned off? And this includes internal silence, meaning you're not scrolling through...
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Advice on love?

(Using falses names but actual situation) A year ago I was dating this guy (Jason), and we had an amazing relationship. Although unfortunately our relationship took a turn during the summer. It went quiet and I’d put my...
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Which of these two writing styles do you prefer?

I'm not talking about the meaning of the text here, but really about the writing style. I have a theory about what Anglo-Saxons prefer and I'll see if it's confirmed lol Text 1 ) What a surprise it was! Through...
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How is this poem?

I met u in exam hall of all places. saw your eyes and fell in love in an instant, Help u in that exam hall to escape, our late night talks, our long text, After months of falling out of contact yet we decided...
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Hi all, guys if a woman backs away with no drama because you've ignored her text why do you come back again?

And this has happened a few times on 1 hand im being told he isn't that into me but on the other he comes back with we have a good thing going and how he misses me then he disappears again. It leaves me confused why...
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