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I knew this ugly guy who was quite stylish and tall let’s call him Eric, so basically I’ve known eric since primary school and we went same high school and college ever since we was 11-12 girls have always avoided him or talked to him rudeley and called him ugly all the time even the female teachers hated him and Eric got detentions for stupid reasons and in college he started to dress nice and he had an account with 20k followers and a lot of girls was commenting on his posts complementing his style but girls never gave him the same energy in real life even tho he dressed even nicer in real life and they’d still avoid him and laugh at him when he’s not there I personally would of rated his looks a 2-3/10

With Instagram now as it is. If you’re a really hot girl you’ve got 5-100k followers, you’re now competing with celebrities, because a famous guy will want to use her for a fun time and now that girl will think that is her new minimum acceptance.

Look at how many women worship male celebrities like drake, Chris brown and put them all on their stories. Women only truly desire the best men on the planet.
The best guy is no longer just tall, handsome and rich.

I think so.

Like I get people shocked all the time that I’m single. It is partly through choice but also a lot of the time I will match with loads of girls and they won’t respond, ghost….. they still looking for more when I already check every box. Like I can’t believe my fortunes in life. Yet still, not enough.

But also I never get to meet new girls in person. I am not complaining at all - I am just highlighting.

It’s easy if you have nil standards as a guy and undersell yourself.

For me if a girl has given herself to any other guy it’s a red flag. She would have to be truly phenomenal to ‘erase’ that at least for me.

Why would anyone want their partner to have been with another person I will never understand, and I don’t get how people relate it to insecurity either. Like I’m supposed to want this?

And look swear down I’ve got a huge tool, I know that but I wouldn’t want another potential man to have ‘piped’ her as good as me, I don’t want her to have shared an experience and comparing me to other loser dudes, I want no sloppy seconds either.
Again, am I supposed to want these things?

Yes, I am aware this standard does rule out most women.

It baffles me how a guy could get on one knee for a girl that isn’t a v*rgin.

If a man was your friend and then decided to admit he had feelings for you, would you feel like he was taking advantage of your friendship just to get close to you?