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Did my boyfriend fall out of love with me?

I'm in an NM relationship, and things have been fine for the most part. I'm like “the main chick,” meaning that I get to hang out with his friends and meet his parents. This has been used by him to assure me that “our relationship is special” and that he “has a special connection" with me. For a year, this sufficed, although it’s frequent for me to be left out because he has plans with other people. However, unfortunately, this week, something really offensive happened: We went out to the movies together, and when we arrived, he said that one of his “friends” was coming over. I asked, “What do I have to do with it?” He said, “Nothing, I just want to let you know because I have no control over what’s going to happen.” During the screening, he was acting weird: he didn’t want physical contact with me and was shutting me off when I tried to comment - mind you, that’s not how he usually acts; we always comment during the movies we see together. I felt weird about it, but I thought we would have an opportunity to discuss it at the end of the night. I was deadly wrong.

After the movie ended, I went to the bathroom. When I came out, he was with some girl. He introduced us, and she asked him if he was taking the bus home, to which he answered that he was. It was a silent agreement, I think. The girl then went to the bathroom, and after that he looked me in the face and said, “You’re taking the bus as well?” I said, “Yes, you know I am.”

He gave me a dog-left-out-in-the-rain look, which told me more than I needed to know — he had already decided what he was going to do when the girl asked him. He said he was leaving with her and left me on my own, lol. That really hurt me because, damn - we were out on a date, for fuck’s sake. Can’t he understand that that’s insane behavior?

The worst part is that he didn’t even apologize. He just said that we should "be transparent about certain things". I haven’t responded yet; I’m just too hurt. Should I break up with him?

Did my boyfriend fall out of love with me?
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