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I don't use it but I have several girlfriends and some guy friends that do and most of them say there is an erotic enhancement to having sex when stoned... are they right, or not so much?

In some cases some of my nudist and non-nudist girlfriends grow it for themselves which is legal to do in California with a Medical Marijuana Permit. Even though I don't use it, I do like the smell of it.

Many of my friends enjoy exhibitionism and being watched, even during sex, and have asked me to get nude with them since I am a nudist. But sometimes one of them or their friends try to get me to smoke some of it with them. Most of them know that I don't need any more sexual enhancement... for the safety of others... lol

Not sure I would ever try it but it makes me horny when I see some of them in their weed induced sexual escapades and even hornier when they end up enticing me to join them.

And what about weed Porn?

28F, only thing I know for certain is I have anxiety & my self esteem could be better. But, nothing too terrible that makes me incapable of finding a LTR. I’ve been on and off dating apps for years, I don’t get how they don’t work for me as it’s known women have it easier & people tell me I’m attractive (not just family/friends). I have to use the apps bc I never get approached in person, I get the matches but in the end it just doesn’t work out. The last time I saw someone I was 23 & that only lasted for a few months. It felt like settling & I’ve become even pickier now. I don’t really have that much of a sex drive but that isn’t something a guy can sense right off the bat so I don’t think that’s it. It’s like I wonder if I’m ready to date but ffs I’m almost 30 that’s odd if I’m not. I met up with someone for the first time in almost 2 years last week & I didn’t even stay for the whole time, I left after maybe 15 min bc I wasn’t feeling it (even though chatting went well on the app), I had a long day, wanted to leave before the drinks arrived since I didn’t want him to get charged & most of all I was worried he was gay (by his voice). I usually video chat before but moving fwd that’s non-negotiable. Oddly enough I still don’t think it’s my fault for being single this long, yes I’ve tried counseling/medication & it was a bust. Can an almost 30 yr old woman date while being anxious, insecure, reserved & close to being maybe on the asexual spectrum?

As example someone who is involved with a decent woman or man leading them along for sex by saying all the "right" words but which they honestly don't mean.

I am just wondering because a friend of mine just had an issue with her boyfriend. Now she is the softest, sweetest person you'll meet a true heart of gold. Not a pushover but she wants to help, etc., etc. And it's something a LOT of people - friends, colleagues, etc. - have warned her about how bluntly people without her best intentions at heart will use/abuse her.

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Anyway she asked to meet at his house 2 weeks from X date and was told no, maybe a couple of weeks.

Now ever since they're last meet up, instead, he has constantly brought up meeting up at airbnbs. Yes the last time that they met up they did this & had a good time.

But there's something sleazy / cheap about meeting at an airbnb - like a side fling, a hookup.

And that's something she brought up tonight. That airbnb = hookup, what when no to home.

Automatically he gets defensive & offended by the implication.

But the thing is, when she asked to meet at his house like a proper girlfriend / boyfriend relationship it was no.

But for meeting at an airbnb - like said a sleasy / cheap side piece / fling - he's constantly bringing it up, begin gunho about it.