Why do some men like to manipulate and use women.. what's the psychological reason behind it?

[Anonymous]

I know a guy who's married yet he's pretending to be single manipulating many girls for sex.. Makes them believe he loves them, gives them hope for marriage.. Why does he do that? Is there some psychological disorder?

[midnightmoon05]

Not my problem. The wife’s problem. I always ask… and if they are married…I just talk about things not related to relationships. I can carry on intelligent conversations and that’s what I preferred…if they want to flirt with me…I change the topic to be about their wife/family. Men respect me and not sexualized me when they learn that I am a woman with kindness and have wisdom to share.

[ronaldo75]

Because women seemingly have to be manipulated to get any strong hot attraction out of them. Anytime a guy is straight ahead honest with y'all and doesn't put on act, you lose interest within seconds or you find it boring, OR you find it creepy. Pretending to be Mr. Smooth and feeding you bullshit stories, playing to your desires and emotions or macho nonsense is how most guys make girls latch on to them psychologically.

[Futuregreens]

Maybe they have a sex addiction, maybe they have some sort of conquest complex, it's hard to tell with limited information. The problem isn't inherently having sex with other women, but the lying and manipulation. They might even enjoy doing those things more than sex for all we know. People like this could have choose polyamory lifestyles but tricked others seeking monogamous relationships.

[StarWarGirl]

Manipulation is a kind of power to have control over something or to get something. Everyone likes to win. And life is the actual playground. With the manipulate they play the game and try to win the game. Simple.

It's the responsibility of other side player to understand the game and defend themselves. Not to get the trap.

Or else this is life. And life is same.

[tzdc21]

I could ask the same for women towards men. Manipulation is bad all around. Both genders do it to each other frequently.

[spartan55]

Knowing WHY doesn't help you at all. Being diligent and observant from the moment you meet someone, that's helpful advice.

[Anonymous]

They hate women as much as they are attracted to them. Combine this with having a dick for a brain and you have it. They act out their sexual desire and hatred for women at the same time

[BarryLiverstone]

He likes novelty and isn’t loyal. Better question is when he pretends why do they fall for it?

[LeviXL]

Lying to woman is the easiest way to get laid.

[Anonymous]

men like that are just too greedy and want to ruin it for everyone else

[exitseven]

Men do this to get sex. It is pretty simple.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women do.