Is my boyfriend using me for a green card? I think im in love and I never have been before or talked to someone online?

[Anonymous]

I guess writing this down makes me feel embarrassed.

I'm ready to get dragged this is honestly a bit bizarre.

So I never did the internet thing. Never dated online or like on dating apps. But covid had me in the house these past 2 years but now that it's lifting I realized how isolated I am.

So I thought it was a good idea to stream some games I play to get to talk with people to curb my loneliness while I get my life in order. Harmless enough right?

Well one subscriber played with me and im going to be honest after playing with him several times I realized I always had fun with him. A lot of fun. More fun I ever had in my life with any man I ever been with. He makes me laugh but it's more like our sense of humor is compatible.

Then when after about 3 months I realized I liked him. And tried to cut it off. I stopped streaming I was really appalled at myself and how low I must b in life to be getting attached to a guy online.

After about a week of no contact I missed him like crazy I was crying like a moron I have no idea what the heck was wrong with me. So I ended up visiting his stream and he contacted me after.

Then after he contacted me after his stream to thank me for visiting and asked me why I ghosted him.

I told him I think I like u

He said I KNOW I like u

And well... we been together for 11 months now 😩

This man is on the phone with me straight 24/7 even sleeps on the phone with me because I get nightmares.

He is from trinidad and originally was planning on working in Canada. But he gave up work opportunities there to come to America to work for his 6 month visa so we can spend time together in person. (As per my request)

He keeps talking about wanting to marry me and well I'm not having sex before marriage so I can't tell if it's because of that. He tells me he loves me like all the time. He begs to be intimate with me. Reminds me to take my inhaler.

This entire situation is new to me

[Hinaaaaa]

It's hmm I think such relationships are actually more good cause you don't really try to get to know someone just chatting or talking with them like strangers & enjoy company of eachother...& one day realize you are in love but that could be an attachment too cause you were lonely when we are lonely we find an escape... you found him as an escape... plus he made you laugh... happiness is contagious already...& when someone actually understands our humor so we can have inside jokes it feels really good... don't think much... just see what happens after that...🙃

[Asker]

Thank you I still feel really confused but it does feel nice so I'll try not to worry its not like we getting married over night and just enjoy the time we have together 🥰 thank you so much

[Hinaaaaa]

🙃no need

[HelpfulWoman]

i'm icked by it. His plans changed so quickly and marriage in talks already? yeahhhhhhhhh nah

[Asker]

Yea he had opportunity to work in Canada doing some welding but I just asked casually like oh can u work in America so it's easier to like see each other

And it took a few months but he has some family here in Georgia and new york and they all agreed he can stay with them while we date and he works and stuff.

He also introduced me to his family they seem kind. His aunt always says hi to me and his mom always showing me her karaoke singing which I honestly find so precious and cute.

And I don't know girl ever since I told him I'm not having sex before marriage he has been calling me his future wife and talking about marriage and then he keeps saying after we get married he wants us to move to Canada because he hates America and doesn't want to raise his kids here. 🤔

[HelpfulWoman]

I'd be worried.

[Truthatanycost]

When you are in love with that which you do not truly know, then that which you love is truly a fantasy.