What is the Hardest Part of Loving Somebody?

[Flatmanlewis]

Speaking mostly in terms of a romantic relationship but, what part of loving someone can be a challenge or has presented something you have had to overcome or learn to adjust to?

[imtiaz45]

The hardest part of loving somebody can vary from person to person and situation to situation, but a few common challenges often emerge:

Vulnerability: Opening up to someone and allowing yourself to be vulnerable can be difficult. There's always a risk of getting hurt when you let someone into your heart.
Communication: Effective communication is essential in any relationship, but it's not always easy. Misunderstandings, conflicts, and differing communication styles can create hurdles.
Compromise: Love often involves compromise. Balancing your needs and desires with those of your partner can require patience, understanding, and sometimes sacrifices.
Fear of Loss: Loving someone deeply means facing the possibility of losing them, whether through breakup, distance, or death. This fear can be overwhelming and may lead to anxiety or insecurity.
Acceptance and Forgiveness: Nobody is perfect, and accepting your partner's flaws and mistakes, as well as forgiving them when they hurt you, can be challenging.
Maintaining Independence: While love often brings two people closer together, it's also important to maintain a sense of independence and individuality. Finding the right balance between togetherness and personal space can be tricky.
External Pressures: Outside influences, such as family, friends, and societal expectations, can sometimes add stress to a relationship and make it harder to navigate.
Despite these challenges, many people find that the rewards of love—such as companionship, support, and joy—far outweigh the difficulties.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/z7-H3C4s3tQ

[Flatmanlewis]

What a great reply. You clearly understand the challenges of relationships and the payout reward as well.

[TonyMetal___86]

To trust them, a girl can tell me what ever she wants but i'll have a hard time to trust her, sometimes it makes a woman sad or angry but that's who i am, and YES becsuse of my past experiences, it's very hard for me to trust anyone...

Let's take my experience aside, i saw lot's of other couples where they suffered the same!

The hardest thing that i have difficulties to believe in is not being left or dumped!

There was girls who said, we prefer to die on leaving the man that we love and these women left their men in a blink of an eye and when i asked some of them, how can you leave? Didn't you promise or said that you're a woman who never quits or leaves, their answer was shallow or didn't even answer and stayed shut!

I can't tolerate this behavior, why do you make promises that tou can't keep, or day things that you aren't able to do!

[Flatmanlewis]

Man. That’s a tough one. I felt that.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well that's the reason why i can't trust women, i'm not willing for the risks anymore and surely not willing for more pain and can't live with someone where my mind keeps wondering when my expiry date will come!

[DishLady]

Stepping into it together and maintaining your rhythm as a couple — or what they call “love language” now. Folks don’t all have the same way of communicating love so it’s important to figure that out and then discover great new ways to communicate and receive genuine signs of love.

[Pinay_ako]

Giving your heart to them knowing they’re going to break it.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the art of love! It's like a dance – exciting, but sometimes you step on each other's toes. The hardest part? I'd say it's the balancing act of loving them while staying true to yourself. It's easy to get lost in the whirlwind of emotions and end up putting your own needs aside. Remember, the healthiest love is where you love your partner fiercely, but not at the expense of your own independence and growth. It's about growing together, not losing yourself in the process. So, keep dancing, but make sure to wear your comfiest shoes, so you can keep up with the steps while staying true to your rhythm!

[Flatmanlewis]

Shut up Brad.

[CriticalCatDad]

The hardest part of loving somebody romantically to me anyway is knowing she’ll find some other guy or girl with a more exciting life than I have. That’s all women want these days is excitement. Excitement and conflict.

[Flatmanlewis]

Wow. Has this been your experience? I’ve heard the dating world is a dumpster fire but have been out of the game long enough to not have any personal experience.

[CriticalCatDad]

I haven’t had a relationship let alone a date in 9 years because of how bad it is. All of my exes cheated on me except for 1 and I didn’t feel anything for her to be honest. And when I tried to see where things would go with someone new she falsely accused me and served me an ex parte PPO giving her the power to have me arrested on our tiny campus whenever she wanted. I would wake up every morning dry heaving into my toilet before leaving for class because I was afraid I’d bump into her while trying to avoid entire parts of our tiny campus leading up to the court hearing I arranged where she tried to hire my lawyer and all I could have done was slap myself with a civil temporary restraining order and drop out of school till it went away. Women have too much power and privilege in the US and until something is done about this I will not date or have relationships with women period

[Flatmanlewis]

Man. Sorry that’s been your experience. Maybe a larger area with a broader dating pool would be good.

[CriticalCatDad]

Might be but I have a very strict limit on a whole lot of things regarding distance and individuals I’m into. Best to just not play the whole dating and relationship game. By not playing I’m winning

[IslaTheWitch]

sometimes it's hard to accept all the differences... some time and understanding are needed

[Flatmanlewis]

This is so true.

[Krealot]

I agree with this as well. That is why I belive jumping into a "love" relationship too fast is quite foolish.

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[Phoenix98]

I guess it kind of depends on a person to person, situation to situation kinda basis. The difficulties you may have in loving one person may not even be a thing with the next you know?

But I suppose the closest think of to something consistent that I can think of that would be the hardest part of loving anybody would be maybe trust?

[Anonymous]

Every morning. Nightmare to pee. I'd have to be really stressed, sick or had too little sleep not too. One time I got drunk on whisky with this girl and when I took her to bed I couldn't get hard, penis could only get semi hard in the morning so she sucked off a semi hard dick while I played with her pussy.

[LiamJHayden]

Nothing. I just choose to love and then do so.

[Flatmanlewis]

That’s a pure heart.

[LaurenM1997]

Trusting them after a relationship in the past was bad

[Anonymous]

Knowing that she'll never love you as much as you love her.

[Flatmanlewis]

Now that is a tough one.

[Oreo19848267]

Honestly the hardest part about loving someone is being able to trust them and open up

[Flatmanlewis]

Definitely hard.

[exitseven]

It is putting yourself out there and giving somebody else the ability to rip your heart out

[GizemliGecee]

I think the hardest part of being in love is finding a way to be together and get along with my lover when we think differently from time to time.

[dustybiker2]

Knowing it will hurt just as much on the flip if you lose them.

[liggang]

Raising a family and keeping things together and oriented towards your future.

[Account]

I think the most difficult part would be to fully accept them for who they are.

[Account]

And the the second would be to trust them. But I think to fully accept someone is the most difficult thing.

[LadyKitty]

Getting Hurt in some way and learning to forgive them depending on what it is.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

the fear of or knowing that later you'll regret opening up to her, the fear of losing her/not doing right, and the fear of getting betrayed

[Anonymous]

Knowing that lobe is a two edged sword. As we age, someone will get sick and die. Knowing that now is the hardest part.

[Opinion Owner]

love*

[NathanDavis]

if it's true love... it's not hard at all

[Flatmanlewis]

Maybe, but don’t you think life can also push into parts of life that can be challenging or require some fortitude?

[NathanDavis]

oh yeah... but that's life being life

life is hard, for sure... it's not the person and the love you have for them but, anyway

I believe the hardest part is both... acceptance and loss, that's so fucking damned hard, but worth too

" For all the joys Thy child shall bring...
The risk of grief we'll run... "

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S1I_oPPL20c

*KnockingOnAllTheWoodEverExisted*

[Anonymous]

They’ll never love you back.
I swear a broken heart causes a PTS

[itsclearlynicholas]

Their god awful flaws 😔😔😔 😆 so I'm single