Why is the first love is the hardest?

[Milania88]

Yes, I am completely madly attached to him. I do not know why I have been locked in this cage for two years and I am still attached to him.
When I feel feelings for another guy, I still care for him and I feel very sad that I will leave him or he forget me one a day and I feel as if he is doing something to me make me very attached to him! Why am I locked in a cage and my heart is broken, and when I tries to go out, my heart is broken and I feel very sad.. very sad

[AmeerX]

It's your first time. You don't know how to handle it but whatever you do ,"Don't Sleep with The Boy" thinking you can tame him like that.

İf he is interested in you he should propose a marriage.

You are still young and growing 💗. You should not fall to the hook up culture. The more attractive you are and getting compliments the more you will feel off the ground but it's just going to be a sad story if you did something like that.

Look to God, if he made people this beautiful then imagine how beautiful God would be. Do you realize God would be more beautiful than anything in the world.

Have a relationship but don't get into pressure. I don't judge others if they did it but even my advice to them that they should learn to be happy and imagine romance over lust.

So, don't let lust take over you. You will be blinded and tempted. If you were my daughter I did talk to him for you but I would not let you elope like this and damage your self worth.

P. S we are all masters of our own destiny so, you are young that is why I strongly suggest you listen to someone sensible and not become another girl who got the hook.

[SnowedIn]

I don't know that I agree that first love is hardest but I do agree that love is hard and breakup is hard and not knowing what will happen in a day, week, or year is even harder.

That said a first love comes with huge challenges because it is first. There are unknowns accompanied by feelings both physical and mental. It's like Shakespeare said, this is the "undiscovered country". It's scary and wonderful and brand new. And then when it ends, you're once again in new territory.

I'm so sorry about your broken heart and the sadness. The only thing I can say is that it does get better. Really. You'll always remember. But your heart will heal and you will sing and smile again.

[Curiosity2006]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/E0qIG-h4rIE

I'm so sorry to hear that! 😐 Did he show you his love substantially in any way, or was it just his looks?

[Anonymous]

Well, get involved with doing things with friends and getting to know as many people as possible. Enjoy hobbies that you like. Realize that there is a lot more out there. I know it is tough especially at that age. I remember I was dating a young lady when I was in my mid-teens and it was rough in some ways emotionally. Eventually we both slowly went our own ways and all was well.

[misogynistic_pig]

First love is the first strong loads of neurotransmitters in the brain, especially if it is in adolescence, that is why no adult can have a romance as strong as adolescents.

[OddBeMe]

The first cut is the deepest.

https://youtu.be/aBccr-aLu4I