Did he choose me because im cooking, giving him money and sex?

[tempirl2012]

I'm starting to think my boyfriend is only with me because i'm cooking for him, giving him money, sex whenever and he's using my car. His baby mom on the other said she doesn't give him anything. However, this whole time that we've been together, he got her pregnant behind my back. Then i told him to choose between me or her. He chose me.! Which obviously didn't stop him from talking to other females. What do u all think? Do you think he's only with me because of the things i'm doing for him/giving to him? Im allowed at his house but he says his baby mom and kid can't never come because she don't have anything to offer.

[Anonymous]

Lol really? You’re still w him? You have issues. Work on them. Dudes a freaking loser. Knocked up his ex behind your back, using your car to go see her, probably getting her food w the money you give him lol

[tempirl2012]

According to her, He never bought her anything.

[Opinion Owner]

Regardless of whether he bought her something or not you need to leave that loser, then start working on yourself.

[Nxtawm]

Just read what you wrote out loud, especially that last sentence you wrote. You need better standards and some self respect. Like it’s not even the fact that you’re giving him money, sex, cooking for him, being his mother but he cheated on you, is still talking to other women and you’re focused on why he chose you instead of dropping him. You can do better girl

[TruthBeTold77]

Wow. You seriously need to work on your self-esteem/respect.

[Anonymous]

Wow, you sound great but you don't have the time for this. Find a man to appreciate you and that pays his way, is loyal, and comes without a child. Or am I missing something?

[shortster]

If you are giving him all of this he should be at least loyal. You should dump him.

[Billlewis]

Does he treat you well?

[tempirl2012]

He cheated.

[Billlewis]

Well, then that probably sums it up.

[Billlewis]

Usually when I'm in a relationship like this, I'm the one who's providing the money, vehicle, and maid service, etc. I just think these kinds of arrangements work better when the woman is receiving the benefits, instead of the guy.

[tempirl2012]

Yeah. My family keep on saying he's using me. Plus he doesn't help me with anything. Every time im low on food and money for my own kid i have to ask other guy's or my family.

[Billlewis]

I just started following you and you're welcome to follow me as well if you want.

[Fanfare690]

You're slowly realizing the dude is a dog

[exitseven]

You need to dump this guy. He sounds like a loser.

[electromagnetic]

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