So the guy I’m dating is a stoner and he’s a bit of an introvert but he’s well known. Me, I have my small friend group I’m goal oriented, Im a shopaholic, and I love money, I’m spoiled and I don’t drink and I rarely smoke. We’re complete opposites. Girls that he use to talk to are similar to him they would be stoners and they would show their ass online, they’re pretty in a trashy kind of way. I don’t show my ass online I just post my friends and food tbh😭
He also gives me reassurance, and he says things like “make sure you drive safely.” And, “make sure you get a lot of rest.” He also gives me tips on how to take care of my braces. I’m also the first girl to ever meet his mom. I just don’t understand why he would date someone so different than him.
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" I just don’t understand why he would date someone so different than him." You would need to ask him that question.
Why are YOU dating HIM?
Because he’s hot.
And maybe he just wants you for sex.
We haven’t had sex yet. Also if that were the case why did I meet his mom?
Think about it. If a guy said, "you're not meeting any of my family or friends and I'm just hanging in there until I get in your panties," how would most girls respond?
I meannnn for the first 3 months of dating he hasn’t talked about sex and he doesn’t ask me for nudes and he hasn’t sent any. If anything I wanted to just fuck him and be done he’s the reason why we’re dating now
Maybe he wants a relationship. Does that interest you?
Well now I’m interested but he never shares his emotions with me. I told him before that I was just looking for sex and he was okay with that but then he’s not wanting me to leave his house.
So maybe you should stop overthinking this and let it unfold in due course.
So what should I do?
stop overthinking this and let it unfold in due course.
Maybe he developed some critical thinking? why do YOU like him? You could ask him though
What is he, your dad?
Why do you say that?😭
Why not
What?
I said why not
Why do you say why not?
Why not?