Why did he choose me?

[Anonymous]

Met this guy online, and we instantly hit it off. And now we are boyfriend and girlfriend. He's really shy and I'm pretty positive I'm his first girlfriend ever. He's super genuine. He holds the door open for me, picks me up and comes up to the door, texts me regularly, pays for my meals, smiles a lot at me, seems to be nervous and fidgets around me. He always lets me choose the places to eat which is amazing. I really like him... but there's one thing. I'm insecure, and no matter how hard I try to fix my personal issues they come back to haunt me (my weight is my biggest insecurity) I'm a bigger girl, and I do this thing where I work out and I eat.. like that doesn't work like that. I hate the way I look, I'm literally a chubby fat girl. I don't know why he chose me. Like I feel he could get a much more prettier girl, with a great body. I'm short, he's tall. He's country I'm a city girl. I don't know, I like him a lot... but he can do so much better than me.. I have NOTHING to offer... not a thing...

[whatsupthere]

Hey girl, he sounds like a really great guy. And that you both like each other. So jealous. :)

Super understandable that you are insecure. Hell, even fitter/ slimmer girls get insecure, too right? I bet, even Jennifer Lawrence or Kendal Jenner do, too. My point is, it's part of life. You can even say it is a positive thing to feel-- being insecure that is. Because it means, there's that thirst to be better for either yourself or someone else.

What is NOT OKAY is to let these insecurities LIMIT YOU AND let them suck the JOY our of your as if you dont deserve to be haply. CAUSE GIRL, YOU DESERVE TO BE.

Remember what they always say: NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INFERIOR WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT.

Dont let you bully you, okay? Sometimes, our greatest enemy can be our own selves.

Use these insecurities to BETTER yourself. All the best.

[ArrowheadSW]

Well it sounds like he is very attracted to you. How old is he? Don't sell yourself short as you must have qualities that he really likes. I would say to continue to work on the weight issue because it is better for your health in the long run, but don't let that get you down. He might even think the curviness is cute!

[ThatPersonOverThere]

One cannot help what they desire.

It doesn't matter if you don't see anything special in yourself, because he does.

[Blu91]

We are not always looking for supermodels you know? Generally we just want somebody who make us laugh and relax.

[rahul_24]

Don't overthink. If you are feeling insecure work on it. Talk to yr boyfriend, I'm sure he will help you out

[vegaparlog]

Jeez can you not like seriously

[Asker]

Then don't comment, Jesus.

[vegaparlog]

:) too bad i already did.
Also being insecure is very unattractive just letting you know;)

[geeksquadjm]

Being a dick is also unattractive. Just so you know 😉