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guys and girls please help. Me and my girlfriend disagree. Her and the male bestfriend have been friends for 2 1/2 almost 3 years. They were messaging on snap one day and he asked how are you she said eh shitty his response was smile beautiful. Now I asked her if he knew we were together and she said yes. The part we disagree on is if it's ok that a friend of the opposite sex calls your boyfriend handsome or your girlfriend beautiful. She says it was only a compliment and they are nice to hear once in a while (even with me calling her beautiful everyday) I say it's not a compliment it's flirting and it's not ok. What do you guys and girls think?

Many men are afraid to approach girls they don’t know, and women almost never do it; it’s very rare. I used to be scared too but in high school I had a social environment, so I could easily meet girls by finding common ground in classes, and since I was good looking and successful, it was easy. In fact, most of the time, they were the ones who came to talk to me.

When I went to university for engineering, the number of girls decreased a lot. I stayed without a girlfriend for a long time. I got tired of this situation, so one day I approached a random girl I liked in the library, found an excuse to start talking, gave her a compliment, and got her Instagram. While doing this, I was so stressed my hand was shaking when I gave her my phone. But I succeeded it felt like I had unlocked a new skill in flirting.

I’m curious can you cold approach? And are you comfortable doing it?

I think for most people, skydiving creates less stress than cold approaching.