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He used to love me a lot and I rejected. He was devastated and even years later had beef with me. We both agreed to be fwbs, somehow he was possessive of me.

But the issue is for him, he just wants consent and then not do the act. He would constantly ask for sex, when I say, say at work, he would say he will leave on 2 days and wants it today. Makes me say yes and then chicken out. This is a very common pattern that I have seen.

This is not just for sex. He would ask me to do him a favour or offer me to help and then chicken out. He would ask to eat lunch with me if I’m alone and all what he wants is ‘yes’ and then chicken out. He would offer to walk me home and he wants me to say ‘yes’ and then chicken out. Also I have seen him staring at me from a different building/distance, without talking to me and very fidgety around me.
Also he always questions me if I’m alone to the extent of asking me to take a picture to ensure I’m alone.

He acts like he doesn’t care but can’t see me even talking to other men at all. He freaks the hell out when he sees me talk to another guy. Me talking to another guy is such a pain on his ass that he calls my potential dates to bitch about me. And when someone ask about me he would say ‘earlier we used to talk really well but now she doesn’t’.

So there’s this guy that I’ve been noticing looking at me and glancing from time to time! Tbh every time I look around I see him staring and he keeps walking past my office room, sometimes he even jumps in as if he’s trying to help! One time I was talking to a colleague and he saw us talking, I kid you not he just kept staring and listening to what we were saying I could literally see him staring the whole time from a distance but I played it cool and he didn’t notice that I catch him looking (he probably thought I was not looking) ALL this and didn’t think much of it till my colleague told me that she’s also been noticing him looking at me constantly!

What does all this mean to you? I’m confused bc he's a good guy!