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A few studies suggest that aspects of a person's personality correlate with seasonal preferences and environmental upbringing. The climate preferences are apparently formative in what naturally recharges and comforts a person. (Similarly, preference for certain times of day are said to impact productivity levels.)

Key Personality Correlations by Season Preference:

• Winter People (Extreme/Cold): Linked to introversion, introspection, critical thinking, creativity, and emotional resilience. (Preferring quiet, introspective, cozy settings.)
• Summer People (Extreme/Hot): Linked to high energy, vibrancy, sociability, and love of physical activities.
• Spring/Fall People (Transitional/Mild): Linked to higher emotional stability, conscientiousness, agreeableness, and openness/extroversion.

Factors Influencing Seasonal Preference:

• Upbringing: People raised in milder climates tend to score higher on desirable personality traits (socialization, flexibility, etc.).
• Psychophysiological Comfort: Preferences are based on what a person associates with safety or positive stimulation.
• Birth Month: Folks tend to be subconsciously attached to the season of their birth month.
• Contrast Effect: Sometimes preference for extreme (winter/summer) weather comes from a desire for contrast.

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I feel really alone after cutting my family off.. I’m realizing that you can’t heal from the same environment that broke you and it kept me in a bind for years because they heavily supported me and I was doing well until one day I really needed their support and I realized that I didn’t matter?

I was talking to a man I was head over heels for and he didn’t want me. We stopped dating and I was so depressed for a year and I just didn’t want to live and I told my mom about it and then my cousin… I told my cousin everything and she goes behind my back to talk to him

My cousin lives with my mom and I tell her that I think something is going on and my mom just ignores me or says “so what do you want me to do about it “ or she says “I’m sure there’s things that you’ve done “… so it felt like a knife in my chest fr… because it feels like I’ve been betrayed twice

And to this day I don’t know how to move on from it and everyone is saying let them fall in love etc and move on… I feel gaslit by my family over the situation…