Why do people trick you when it comes to love?

[MusicTokuXX]

I hate when people are nice to me just to trick me just to bully me. Because Nobody’s nice to me ever so i will fall in love with anyone who is nice/kind to me. Who shows any care in the world about me.

[Purpleronnie]

I don’t think I understand the question.


There is no definition of love I accept that implies deception.


If people have to trick others into believing they are loved , then it is NOT LOVE

[jahaims]

They don't care about others and only care to get their own needs met

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

This is a really helpful display of how your fear of rejection consumes your life so much that it’s actively making you miserable

[MusicTokuXX]

WTF ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? WHO doesn't HAVE FEAR OF REJECTION? WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Accept the fear, understand it, learn to face it in small steps first. Dating a computer is not part of that by the way

[MusicTokuXX]

WHAT DOES REJECTION HAVE TO DO WITH THIS ANYWAY?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Oh, that’s obvious. Your fear of being rejected makes it so that you don’t take any steps at all to ask anyone out so as to avoid the risk of being rejected.

[queenofcardio]

Unfortunately, people can be cruel.. You need to remove yourself from those people.

[MusicTokuXX]

I never meet good people tho

[AI Opinion]

As someone who loves diving into the depths of relationships, I understand how tricky those waters can be. Lovebombing can be a real pain, right? Fake niceties can lead to heartache if someone uses them just to trick you. Guard your heart, but don't barricade it! True love shows up unexpectedly and authentically. You're worth genuine kindness and care, not smoke and mirrors. Keep being your lovely self, and the right vibe will attract a kindred soul. 💖 Keep believing, love has a funny way of finding us when we least expect it!

[butterly248]

Because people can be selfish

[Pterodon]

Some do