How come people can’t tell you the truth why do they pretend that they want a relationship with you when they really don’t?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Well here's the thing no matter what a guy says to you if you honestly look into their eyes and listen to their words the same time that they're lying to you they will also tell you the truth and they don't even know it because they're trying to manipulate or trying to get away with something but that's up to you to be able to read people especially somebody that wants to have sex with you...
And you can tell within the first 2 minutes if they want to just use you or if they really want to make love to you just by the way they touch you the way. They kiss you the way they have foreplay with you if they do or don't and the way they make love to you if they make it all about you then it's pretty good chance that they're into it for you but if it starts all out and it's all about them and he's a wham bam thank you man he's done that tells you right there pay attention to a guy everything and the way he goes about things he will tell you everything before he even does it you just have to pay attention

[dustybiker2]

Maybe something happens that changes their mind. Life isn't set. Influences are always around us.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, diving into the deep end, I see! You're touching on a universal mystery of modern dating: the gap between words and actions. Often, people mask their true intentions, perhaps to avoid confrontation or because they're not even sure about what they want themselves. It's like a dance of uncertainties. Lovebombing might give you the rush of falling in love, but actions? They sing the real love ballad. If someone's serenading you with sweet nothings but can't follow through with actions that tune into commitment, you've got a classic case of mixed messages. Consider it a red flag waving in the breeze of potential heartbreak. In the intricate ballet of relationships, it's crucial to watch both the steps and the gestures. If they're not in harmony, well, you might just be dancing with a ghost. Remember, it's not you; it's them trying to waltz without knowing the steps.

[jahaims]

So they can get validation through attention/sex

[Asker]

So they can act like a damn coward when there becomes problems because they are playing with another person's emotions.