Is there something called 'one true love' ?

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Is there something called 'one true love'? How many times can a person fall in love? What is your opinion about first love or one true love? Has that happened to you?  What are your experiences..

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

I don’t think there is in a predestined magical sense of the word

Some people just get lucky to find mutual love and stick with it all their lives
Some people lose a first love and eventually find a second one
Some people never find love again
And some find it many times

True love is hard to find and even harder to keep.
That’s why it’s rare and it feels like destiny.
But really it’s just dumb luck.

And unfortunately that also means you can find love in a “hopeless place” as the song suggests

It’s the ultimate dice roll of life: do you guard your heart but risk it going cold or do you keep it vulnerable but risk breaking it?
No easy choices

aaron13547 · Accepted Answer

Yes but its ourselves. You find it looking with in yourself. Not in another person. You have to love yourself first or trying to love another person is for selfish reasons. True Love is selfless and unconditional... it holds all things in one.

Think about ot... "one true love"... that means loving them as if they were one with you...

what people call love isn't true love its more like a fractured piece of it. Not quite whole. Its selfish and thats both the problem and the solution.

RandomGirl42 · Accepted Answer

I love just 'cuz I love to love. I don't really need a reason and I fall in love a 100 times a day with everyone. 😊

As far as "one" I don't know. I've been with my sweetie almost 6 years. She was my bestie in HS and then one nite we just "crossed the line". Best "mistake" we ever made. 💖

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I've always felt that there was, but the more I see of the world the more I'm tempted to step back and be happy on my own.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Trying to unravel the mysteries of love, huh? 😉 The idea of 'one true love' is romantic, but reality can be a bit more diverse. People can fall in love multiple times throughout their lives, each experience teaching us something different! First love holds a special place because it's our first taste of the love cocktail! Speaking as a relationship coach and a happily married guy, I'd say cherish each experience, savor the learning, and keep your heart open. Love can be full of surprises, just like a plot twist in your favorite movie! 😍

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MrChinaski · Answer

There are literally millions of people in this world that are your 100% perfect life partner. True love needs some inspiration -- 'falling in love' in your words may be that -- to start but mainly comes down to hard work, day in day out, building each other up, opening yourself up and growing together, for decades.

Belief in 'one true love' is toxic. It leads people to cling to relationships even if they become unhealthy for them. Moreover, if you convince yourself you have found The One then why even bother with the work of actual true love? True love is not an effective search algorithm.

I can love two people truly at once successfully. I've never tried three. Love is abundant; time to devote is finite. I suspect the number of times you can love like that in a lifetime is similarly more like to be bounded by time than emotional capacity... maybe there is a PhD to be written on that question.

My 2c anyway. A potpourri of observations that abut your questions.

a_gallant_one · Answer

I think there is. I had a brain t. u. mo. r surgery and i stll can't use the left side of my body properly, and i had to move out since my family is abusi. v. e and not helpful at all. Mom died last year. So this one day I was returning from grocery shopping when a beautiful girl offered me help, i refused because i had to get myself used to doing everything on my own, she immediately left (she might've even been offended, and it's probably my fault, but i couldn't do any better), and i lost her in tge crowd the money moment i wanted to at least ask her what's her name (i stumbled and almost completely lost my balance). I absolutely love this girl, ofc, im not sure if she feels the same about me, but even if she's taken i'd still love her the same, and i foolishly believe we'll meet again some day.

CalmUntilAbused · Answer

1. There might be. Not in the contemporary West, though. And I really wish I could be proven wring about it.

2. Hard to tell.

3. I have no opinion, since I have never had it happen to me. Unless that one unrequited... fascination counts, but that is still kind of painful to think about.

4. No, I don't think it did.

molonski2 · Answer

It's all pure fantasy for romance novels and movies , you can fall in " love " 100s of times , when push comes to shove it's more functional than the fantasy , and it's really about the bad times rather than the good.

In truth it's all a Mirage.

DonaldDarko · Answer

More like one true processor or circuit board. "Love" is about reproduction, it's reptile tier. If you get anything out if it, it's a result of both your personalities no the thing its self. If you survive it without ruining your life you really should buy a lottery ticket because with luck like that you'll probably win that lottery.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Probably not. Because that would declare the other loves as „untrue“, no?  42 times. It’s an exact science. It’s merely a title. Like  Rambo: First Blood It happens to the best of us!

foxsquirrell · Answer

I used to and wish to believe that there is, but I seriously doubt it. It is like what Plato talked about. There is the ideal world, and then there is the real world. The love you talk about exists only in the ideal world I'm afraid. So in reality you will only find the shadow of real love. A love of sub standard quality when compared to true love!

sawno · Answer

So far I had one true love, haven't found a second person who comes that close. I did "fall in love" before that, but in hindsight that was just me being love blind, it wasn't true.

Tarifa · Answer

No, you can fall in love with several people in a life span. There is no 'one true love', several people can qualify. It's more a question of being ready when that person shows up.

jshm2 · Answer

No. Don't be daft. You've just been watching too many movies.  You can be deeply in love with a person, and then drift apart eventually.

dragoblack · Answer

Nope. And finding true love is hard considering how objectifying, materialistic, and self-serving people's views are of how relationships work... even though true love is like being romantic with your best friend that you're attracted to.

FreakInTheBedroom · Answer

I think its pretty rare for both partners in a relationship to truly love each other and thats why so many people cheat on each other

Anonymous · Answer

One true love is usually one sided bullshit because you ain't the other motherfucker's one true love, just another casualty and they easily move on.

Anonymous · Answer

Well if your worried about "falling in love" than THAT is your problem.

Anonymous · Answer

Fuckin you while sucking your boobs is true love...🥰

alice55 · Answer

I think there's

Kelly6 · Answer

@bloodparadise Totally not

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes there has to be that one true love

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

My parents were married 53 years, so yes.

MasterKS · Answer

It won't exist actually.

garvitrv · Answer

Many times a person falls in love

unsteadydreadfeeling · Answer

not yet

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