Do you think the reason my friend has feelings for women so fast is because of his tough life as a kid?

[Steven80000]

He falled and falls romantically in love with women so fast that it is unhealthy. He falls in love within seconds and his latest girlfriend he falled in love with her so fast online, before even seeing her face. Within 20 seconds him and her wanted to marry each other. He became so obsessed with her and he said she is all he thinks about and he can't live without her, nothing makes him happy but her. He is unhealthily obsessed. His mom, two of his grandparents, aunts, uncles, treated him like shit when he was a kid. He has trauma.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So, first of all, the past tense of fall is “fell” not “falled”
Secondly, your friend doesn’t have a problem with falling in love, he relies entirely on women for emotional regulation and he would do better in therapy than with a girlfriend.

[Nikki1989]

No.

Human attachment patterns are shaped by a mix of personalities, experiences, and how someone learns to feel safe (or unsafe) in relationships.

[Steven80000]

Did you read the details?

[Anonymous]

That doesn't sound very realistic, how can he fall in love if he never saw her face?

I can't even imagine such situation.

[Steven80000]

They heard each other's voice as they were talking through a mic or something through a video game. They didn't know how each other looked. Within 20 seconds of talking to each other they fell in love and wanted to get married.

[Opinion Owner]

They fell in love in a voice? That's kinda bizarre.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm here to help crack the love code! 😉 It's possible your friend's rapid-fire infatuation is linked to his tough childhood experiences. When someone goes through trauma, they might seek love urgently to fill emotional voids and trauma gaps. However, it's essential for him to be mindful of this pattern, as it's a bit of a red flag 🚩 and could lead to heartbreak or love burnout. Encourage him to work on self-love and emotional healing before wandering into another whirlwind romance! 😄💕

[beenherebefore]

Could be linked to something he experienced during his childhood.

[Anonymous]

Am sure he will fall the same for many other women too. And he will realise he is not in love

[Steven80000]

What makes you say that? Because if he falls in love so quickly if a woman that is hotter or whatever, says she is in love with him, he would drop his current wife like nothing? I agree with you but I am wondering if that is what you mean.

[Steven80000]

By the way, before he moved to the other state to be with his current wife in person, him and I were at Buffalo Wild Wings and the bartender kept winking at him. She was hot. He said"Is she flirting?" "This happens to me now?" "Fuck my life," and he was all laughing. If he truly wanted to be romantically involved with the other woman, he wouldn't have said what he said. It turns out she wasn't even flirting with him because later on she winked at me too lol. But yeah so what do you think of everything I said?

[Opinion Owner]

He fell in love with her online? Before he saw her? Dude

[Steven80000]

Yes him and his wife fell in love with each other the first twenty seconds of talking to each other online. They didn't even see each other's faces yet.

[Steven80000]

And he was still in love with her romantically after seeing her despite her not being his type physically. She was fat. He would have let that get in the way of having feelings if he would have seen her right away but he fallen for her already, therefore it didn't matter to him. But than look at the comments about the waitress I told you. What do you think?

[Opinion Owner]

lol. He’s crazy

[Steven80000]

He lived in California and she lived in Florida. They were playing video games and I all of a sudden they decided to talk to just each other on mic without seeing each other yet and they fell in love within 20 seconds of talking to just each other through mic. Later on he saw her face on video can or a pic but his feelings never stopped even after seeing how she wasn't his type. He eventually moved to be with her in person when they spent time with each other in person before.

[Opinion Owner]

Why does he love her

[Steven80000]

Correction: when they werent in person before. They saw each other in person before. I agree he is all off with his way of thinking. It is not normal. I can't recall why he loves her but I think it was something that didn't make sense. I mean I agree who falls in love with someone romantically right away within 20 seconds. I don't know what would happen if she breaks up with him.

[Mariogirl09]

Desperate for pussy or pussy whipped. It happens

[Steven80000]

Pussy whipped? And did you read the details?