Search Results: getting a crush to notice you

Does my crush like me back or no?

I noticed at first that even though he's friendly, he was shyer around me. He'd stare at me and look away when I looked back. Once, all of us went clubbing and stood in a circle, putting our arms around the people next to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Do these people hate my kind?

Just trying to figure out why Mexican men and guys are so rude to black girls like me. I'm not attractive to them but a lot of times they will give me a dirty look no matter how old they are. I work at a retail store and...

whydidyoukick

Xper 2 Age: 26

Anyone been through a similar dilemma?

Either it’s obsession, delusion or it’s happening for a reason. I have this old friend and I used to think she used to have a crush on me but I wasn’t certain. Never got round to asking because we’re both straight but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

What should I act?

Greetings, I have a question and would appreciate any feedback and suggestions. I will try to give a brief context of the situation, so I make sure my confusion is clear. So, 1.5 years ago I went to sign up for this gym....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are these signals?

Well, we're gonna go away soon but it is getting better.. with my crush I mean.. So today I saw him do two things: 1. laughed looking at me while his friends were cracking jokes sitting in the back 2. tried to show...

Anonymous

(18-24)

20 year old dating a 17 year old girl?

I'm going to start off by saying the legal age of consent where i live is 16. I want to explain the situation first off before anything else. Basically i grew up with two kids, one my age (20) and one a few years younger...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Smh am I an idiot or what?

Gonna make things as quick as i can So i met this girl about a year ago, she has always come off as kind and accepting even when i didn't know her, she has even gone out of her way to do nice things for me like getting me...

Crazyworldwelivein

Xper 2 Age: 19

What is the point of this behavior? Diagnose him?

There is this outgoing guy who is more than 6 years older than me that I met recently who really started showing every sign of having a crush on me almost immediately. Peacocking, catching glimpses when I pass by, getting...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Should I just Move on from Friend?

I met this girl almost a year ago at work, she is younger than me, and although i had a crush on her and she found out a while back- I did not tell her, she asked other people or that opinion because i thought being...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Should I walk away from "Friend"?

bluedemo

Xper 2 Age: 45

Why don't more men learn how to flirt?

One of the weird aspects of hearing guys here talk about their struggles with dating is that almost none of them seem to know how to flirt. It seems like every time a guy talks about his issues, everything is super...

RolandCuthbert

Editor Age: 54

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Am I getting mixed signals from him or does he just not like me romantically?

I (17f) have a crush (17m) and for the past couple weeks I have been staring at him and often when I do this he notices and starts back. When this happens I find it awkward especially since someone’s he continues to look...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do closeted gay men attempt to bully or get attention from straight men they’re attracted to?

So I just started a new job a few weeks ago and I have this one supervisor in my building that’s very extroverted kinda overly friendly in a annoying way. I’m more closed off not really friendly just to myself and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Am I being paranoid or insecure if im jealous that my boyfriend has been hanging out with his ex-crush?

Backstory: I work with both my boyfriend and his ex-crush (she works in a different area) and before me and my boyfriend got together he had mentioned that he likes her, he liked her for a while. After a while we started...

throwraa

Xper 2 Age: 24

Am I a Asshole?

so little backstory i transfered to a new school and got in the same class as a dude from my previous class i wouldn't say we are friends we just occasionaly talk to each other so in the new class there is this girl...

DS_Madking

Xper 4 Age: 20

Girls, Why she go out of her way to say hello all of a sudden?

About a year ago I saw a girl I kinda liked at my gym every weekend. I would check her out every now and then. But at first she didn’t look back much. But then I noticed her keep looking and she would smile to the ground...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Why does she keep going out of her way to say hello after a while or not even looking at me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he testing the waters?

I've been talking a lot with my crush a lot lately on the phone. Flirting. Recently I've noticed him peppering the conversation with remarks like "Oh now I can imagine what a first date with you would be like!" / "Is this...

Anonymous

(36-45)