Well, we're gonna go away soon but it is getting better.. with my crush I mean..
So today I saw him do two things:
1. laughed looking at me while his friends were cracking jokes sitting in the back
2. tried to show off his skills in badminton (well.. he sucked lol) and tripped (he has tripped once earlier as well when I was right in front of him)..
3. I don't know if it was because of me sitting there or if he's generally like that but one thing I did notice was that when he scored in a good way, he looked back at me.. and this happened a few times.
so is it good news or what? damnnnn just pls talk to me already we've got just 5 days left in college!!
(p. s. i've already tried a lot online, he always ends it way too early so it always confuses me)
So today I saw him do two things:
1. laughed looking at me while his friends were cracking jokes sitting in the back
2. tried to show off his skills in badminton (well.. he sucked lol) and tripped (he has tripped once earlier as well when I was right in front of him)..
3. I don't know if it was because of me sitting there or if he's generally like that but one thing I did notice was that when he scored in a good way, he looked back at me.. and this happened a few times.
so is it good news or what? damnnnn just pls talk to me already we've got just 5 days left in college!!
(p. s. i've already tried a lot online, he always ends it way too early so it always confuses me)
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It's difficult to say for certain whether these are signals of romantic interest without more information about your specific circumstances and interactions with your crush. However, it's possible that these behaviors could indicate that he is interested in you.
Laughing while looking at you and trying to show off his skills in front of you could be signs that he is trying to impress you or get your attention. Additionally, looking back at you when he scores could be a way of seeking your approval or admiration.
If you're interested in your crush and want to explore a potential relationship with him, it may be helpful to try to initiate more direct and meaningful conversations with him. Let him know that you enjoy spending time with him and would like to stay in touch after college.
At the same time, it's important to respect his boundaries and not push him beyond his comfort zone. Remember that relationships are built on mutual respect, understanding, and communication, and it's important to take things at a pace that feels comfortable for both of you.
i wanna make it better between us but for the past few times i have tried to smile at him but my male bestie was right in front of him and they were coming to class together so when my crush looked at me, he thought i was smiling at my bestf and not him lol.. it was weird, i didn't try again tho cause i feel like since i have initiated our past conversations online, he should make some efforts too, and not just like my story or fill out a survey, make an actual conversation so i can take it forward too..
It's understandable that you want your crush to make some efforts and initiate conversation with you as well. However, it's important to remember that everyone has different communication styles and some people may be more hesitant than others to initiate conversations. If you're interested in him and want to build a stronger connection, it might be worth continuing to make an effort to engage him in conversation and see if he responds positively.
One thing you could try is finding common interests or topics to talk about. This could be something related to the classes you're taking together, a shared hobby, or something else you both enjoy. By finding common ground, you may be able to start a more natural and engaging conversation.
It's also worth considering that your crush may be shy or unsure how to approach you. If you're interested in him and want to take things to the next level, you could try being more direct and expressing your feelings. This can be scary, but it can also be the most effective way to get a clear answer about whether he feels the same way.
okkie thanks for this!
an update is that today he subtly joked with me about my height lol.. with our mutual frnd
You’re welcome and it’s surely possible that your crush is trying to engage with you by making a joke. However, it's also possible that the joke was not meant to be flirtatious or indicative of romantic interest. Without knowing more about the context and tone of the interaction, it's difficult to say for sure.
If you're interested in your crush and want to find out if he feels the same way, it might be worth trying to initiate a conversation with him in person, if possible, and gauge his responses. If he seems receptive and engaged in the conversation, it could be a sign that he's interested in you as well.
Remember that everyone expresses their interest differently, and it's not always easy to interpret their actions accurately. The best way to find out if your crush is interested in you is to communicate directly and ask how he feels. Good luck!
thankyou a hell lot!! i'll try to apply the same. plus i believe that what's meant to be, will be, even if he is on the other side of the world;)
You're welcome! That's a great attitude to have. Sometimes things don't work out the way we want them to, but it's important to trust that everything happens for a reason and that the right person will come along at the right time. In the meantime, focus on enjoying your life and pursuing your own goals and interests. Good luck!
thanks a lot!!
You’re welcome
It's difficult to say for sure whether these are definite signals or not, as people can act differently in different situations and for various reasons. However, some of the things you described could potentially be seen as positive signs. Laughing while looking at you and trying to show off his skills in front of you could suggest that he wants to impress you or get your attention. Additionally, looking back at you when he scores could also be an indication that he's seeking your approval or attention. It's always best to communicate directly with someone if you're interested in them, so if you have the opportunity, try to have an open and honest conversation with him before you go away.
i wish i could do the same.. i try to impress him too during class ppts and he looks impressed too..
additional thing that i noticed is that he often fumbles around me and staggers and falls sometimes.. his friends are always saving him lol
I'm sorry, but I'm pretty confident that the two previous people that responded to you used the AI called ChatGPT to generate every single response in their entirety. Not an ounce of emotion or originality. :/ You can test it yourself by asking and responding to ChatGPT in the same way that you did with these two scammers. The responses should be very similar.
Anyway, did you figure out if it was signals? How'd things work out?