So I just started a new job a few weeks ago and I have this one supervisor in my building that’s very extroverted kinda overly friendly in a annoying way. I’m more closed off not really friendly just to myself and I noticed literally every time I see this man around the building he goes out of his way to get my attention or speak to me. If I hit a corner and we run into each other he’s speaking he even gave me compliment on my jacket one day which was very confusing. He’ll even assign me to the wrong station on purpose attempting to be petty. I’m 6’4 and I’ve been told on occasions I have model features or labeled “pretty boy” in the past so I’m kinda used to getting attention from people especially gay men. I don’t have an issue with gay people as long as they respect boundaries. Could this man be gay or have a man crush or something or be a narcissist? He spotted me coming out of the bathroom one day and instantly started speed walking to catch up to me and started talking to me I didn’t acknowledge him just looked straight a keep walking and he seemed hurt or upset it was weird.
Do closeted gay men attempt to bully or get attention from straight men they’re attracted to?
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I mean I guess! If they feel insecure and uncomfortable about the way they are and haven't "come out" as of yet then it's not unlikely they'll make themselves close to men they are attracted too.
Gay guys have zero interest in straight dudes.
You’re a liar from my experience some gay men will knowingly hit on or have a fetish for straight men. I’ve had gay men harass me at gas stations, gyms and just about every job I worked so what you’re saying is bullshit
Don't think so. That's funny because I've never been hit on by a gay guy, ever. Why is that I wonder?
Your probably not attractive I don’t know.
Lol... yeah that's it. 🙄
Hahah exactly, it's because straight men like to think every gay guy that speaks to them is automatically attracted to them, they all think there brad pitt😁🤣🤭
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You don't even know if this guy is gay or not. That puts your theory about several gay men hitting on you in question. You also don't know what a narcissist is.
I was answering in reference to his question, not talking about him personally. Calling me a "narcissist" for literally answering the question is nonsense and just beyond insulting.
@tj1892
Bro, I guess you missed the @asker tag meaning it was not directed at you.
Well guess what it's a free speech site and I can comment on what I want.. now please.. bore off
Yes they do.
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