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Search Results: red flags
Is this normal behavior for knowing each other for 3 months?
Is he using me for sex or is he just physically into me? Not going to lie we had sex one time and I didn't even get to finish. After that I guess he enjoyed it. We text everyday but he is always inconsistent this is since...
Anonymous
(25-29) Great first date but his wandering eyes bothered me—red flag?
I [27F] was attached to him [35M] on the 1st date from Bumble. He made a reservation at nice restaurant, Ubered for me. While eating, he told me I had lipstick on my chin and proceeded to keep softly wiping my chin with a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you think people really could have been single for all their lives or many years because nobody and I mean nobody wants to go out with them?
With people always asking questions like is it a red flag if so and so hasn't had a boyfriend/girlfriend at 30 or whateve
Anonymous
(25-29) When a first date asks if you’re “all natural,” is that a compliment or a red flag?
I am not exclusively dating anyone as of now, so still exploring my options. Yesterday after a dinner and hours of intellectual conversation, I was asked If I was all natural on a first date, he said he was curious...
I’m 32, never in a relationship—how do I find a wife and spot red flags?
somehow I always got attract to taken women and now another thing I am looking to get married, probably for a arrange marriage I don’t know how to speak to a girl and most importantly how to understand red flags and green...
herambvedpathak
Xper 4 Age: 31 Did I dodge a bullet with this guy’s controlling, lying behavior?
Going to try to keep this short & sweet. I met a guy, he sold me my car and gave me his number. I texted him that I'd love to go out with him. He set a date to a steak house and I was pretty into him from the jump. BUT......
Sophia234
Xper 4 Age: 28 Should your martial arts instructor always be the best fighter in the gym?
One poster on another site asked whether it's a red flag if an instructor says some techniques are "too lethal to practice full power". I told him "No, it's a fact punching someone in the throat will kill them, and you...
SeekerOfTruth007
Xper 7 Age: 45 Is it a red flag if a guy watches hallmark movies?
I used to have a professor who worked in television and he was always comparing things to hallmark movies because "my wife makes me watch them" And if I guess he felt like we didn't believe him he'd go, maybe some of you...
Ladies in your 20s, what types of men are instant red flags?
Yk the kind we notice from first glance or interaction like nope.
Gamer20282
Xper 2 Age: 25 
Is it a red flag if he only sees me every few weeks instead of weekly?
im seeing a guy and i have noticed that he isn't seeing me every weekend. Despite the fact that I want to see him every weekend. Its not like he is busy. I know he is free every Sunday and he gets off of work early every...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
Sevenpointfive
Master Age: 46 Am I being jealous about my girlfriend’s ex or sensing a real red flag?
My girlfriend and I just got back together after we broke up in November. We were together two years before that. She had a boyfriend from December to February. They still talk but to be honest I feel like I’m a third...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is my Persian boyfriend serious about us or am I just a cuddle buddy?
Okay so I’ve (20 F) been dating this Persian (21 M) guy for about a month and a half, things were going good and everything with him taking me out to dinners, activities, flowers, shopping… before he asked me to be his...
Anonymous
(18-24) 
How do I handle liking someone who works in a sketchy environment?
i like this girl but her place of employment has obvious red flags , i don't doubt that our friendship is genuine more have issues with the place she works although i think she handles it well and is an ok place for her...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is loving a big tax refund actually smart, or a financial red flag?
I love it! Was so happy yesterday! I got two years of tax refund, because I didn’t apply last year. And almost danced with happiness. I know it’s not a good thing to get a big tax refund because it means you overpaid. But...
What was the biggest relationship red flag that finally made you walk away?
I am presently 42, So this was some time ago. Most of the time i dont see red flags until its too late, so keep that in mind, but this one was so obvious that if i didn't see it i would be stupid. I was 27. I was with...
Anonymous
(36-45) He joked about sleeping over then invited me abroad—red flag or not?
what does he want? he never said anything sexual before.
Anonymous
(36-45) 