Search Results: talk about your past

From your experience, when someone loses complete and total respect for you, is it ever possible to get that respect back?

From my experience, absolutely not. A certain past situation comes to mind. So for a while I was a part of this friend group. It was a pretty good friend group while it lasted. There were 6 "regular" members counting...

EzraIsShy76028

Xper 7 Age: 24

Am I Overreacting?

I 37F have been dating my 'boyfriend' 41M for about 5 months. This has been an on again, off again situation for awhile. We both decided to give it one last real shot in November and things have been pretty ok. He said at...

Ummmpotato

Xper 1 Age: 39

Why do I a chubby fat tall woman attractive less attractive, fat men no offense? Can I still flirt with other guys?

I mean I’ve always crushed or chases guys that were that my friends claim, “Out of my league”. The gorgeous or good looking girls get the cute or good looking guys. I know there’s some that get average looking guys. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

What would you do if your wife told you "The only reason you got me is because I was a divorced, single mom, and I was scared and you were safe"?

So, Before anyone asks, I have already filed for divorce, she's staying with her children (none of which are mine) at her parents house. About three weeks ago, my ex wife and i were having a party, It was our 8th wedding...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it normal for me to be this obsessed with this guy I keep talking to?

I know this guy from high school and me and him used to date/talk. These past few months him and I have been texting and last week he got annoyed at me because I was getting jealous of him being friends with this girl...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

Should gorillas be given personhood status?

I present this individual for your consideration: She communicates in sign language, using a vocabulary of over 1,000 words. She also understands spoken English, and often carries on 'bilingual' conversations,...

Kelley1

Yoda Age: 21

Would you rather wait for your crush to make a move or move on?

I have a crush on this introverted, shy guy in my college since 3 to 4 months now. I hoped something might happen between us, but I’m too shy to take the initiative and talk to him. I expected him to at least talk to me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Are narcissists good at playing the victim and acting helpless?

You notice narcissists preying on someone empathetic. Such as a good woman whose with a man whose abusive, refuses to work a job, refuses to do anything because she feels sympathy for him. Because he plays the sympathy...

Summeroflove

Influencer Age: 30

Would you dump your boyfriend if he keeps blacking out every few weeks and getting angry at stuff you did in the past/calling u names?

My boyfriend has had 2 DUI before he met me (in one scenario he was not driving actually but sitting in the car w a drink) and has a breathalyzer. He drinks a beer every single day but I have noticed if he has another...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Lost Skills People Used to Know Back in the Day

In the past, people knew how to do a lot more than scroll through social media, do Google searches, watch YouTube videos and order takeout online. They were fixing things, cooking real meals, and figuring out how to get...

AviatorTom

Master Age: 59

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What does it mean when a guy speeds/ revs his car past you when your walking on the sidewalk?

I’ve known this guy for around 10 months and we haven’t talked in a while due to some discrepancies with his friend being my ex but he showed some behaviors of being interested. We haven’t talked at all since before me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Who do narcissistic people want someone to see past their flaws but expect someone else to be perfect?

It never makes any sense like they don’t want someone who judges them…. But at the same time are extremely judgmental and expects someone else to be absolutely perfect. A man may sleep around but expect his woman to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He can back and we set rules. I don’t want him to continue us to talk to her but they will be I. party chat together?

My roommate/situationship finally came home yesterday. He abandoned me for seven months in our apartment and left me for a woman that doesn’t even want him. He did me dirty and I’ve never felt more broken before. Like I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this older man at work into me or just being nice to me? What did he mean?

There’s a man I work with for 7 years now. I’m 32 and he’s 48. He’s VERY attractive and yes I’ve always had a thing for him - this is why I’m confused. I’ve been single for 3 years and he’s been single since he got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would it be rude if I talked to my friend about her weight gain?

Now I’m not the type to talk about someone being fat cause I’ve been fat myself and I believe you should love your body. However, my friend has always been on the larger side but in that past couple of years her weight...

Pink2000

Master Age: 26

If you had a big blowup with your best friend, how do you move past it?

How do you find common ground with this person? How do I even talk to her approach her again when the time is passed to even reach out I feel like I’m just overthinking at this point. We have a mutual friend, but I feel...

Justneedtokno

Guru Age: 31

Relationships

What would you do if your boyfriend got mean during alcoholic blackouts? Do you think he is an alcoholic?

My boyfriend has had 2 DUI before he met me (in one scenario he was not driving actually but sitting in the car with a drink) and has to do all these classes etc has a breathalyzer. He drinks one beer every single day but...

Anonymous

(30-35)