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Search Results: why are guys jerks
Why did he decide to call?
This guy I talked to ended up treating me trashy and it was hard for me to accept. I was very depressed… and even though he just wanted to use me and he ended up being a jerk he had already felt I was unstable. He ghosted...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do nice guys always finish last?
I understand the Freudian desire that draws most women towards A-holes, but does that phase ever end? Would it be prudent for me to just learn how to be a self-centered jerk?
ArmyDave78
Xper 3 Age: 47 Why is it so hard for me to want to be with a good guy?
I got my heart broken and feelings hurt by a decent looking guy with a good job and financial stability.. what attracted me to him the most was his intelligence. I liked him so much just for him to be a jerk and treat me...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why am I not “perfect “ enough to be with…?
I’m very insecure… 3 guys I talked to said “you’re perfect “ “you’re perfect as you are” but they don’t want to be with me.. and what makes it worse is that they went on to get married and left me shattered because I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Anonymous
(25-29) Why do some people act like jerks towards the person they have a crush on?
I don’t understand it for the life of me why people treat their crushes or love interests like assholes. I have have have two experiences of this. In high school, there was this guy that kept harassing me, making fun of...
Antheadragoon96
Xper 3 Age: 29 Why is that some women get defensive if I disagree on a wrong behavior?
I have more problems on calling out someone's BS, regardless of gender. For me, wrong is wrong. When a man acts like a total jerk, other men and women call him out on his BS. Just last week for instance, I disagreed on a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why are guys Insecure about attractive woman?
What’s the point? You can’t pull her, so you act like a jerk to them? Why do they want to be friends with benefits?
Anonymous
(18-24) Why I always find myself being the other woman?
It happened for many times. Is there something wrong with me or has everyone experienced that once in their life time? I always find myself in a situation that I am the other woman. Mostly married man. Is it because of...
ikeaukea
Xper 6 Age: 47 What do you think is going on and what should I do?
ok so get this!! I posted a note on my insta for valentines day that was like "I hope he knows that if he would just ask me out he would've had a valentine today". So that was on Wednesday then on Saturday he liked my...
CAPLOVE
Xper 5 Age: 19 Why do people meddle in people's relationships?
So, I just started seeing this guy. We live close-by and people know each other from the area. We were on our first date and we were walking up the street. Suddenly, a guy called his name and said hello and was really...
Anonymous
(25-29) What do you think was going on here?
They say that there’s always one person you can’t get over and even though this all took place 10+ years ago, I never been able to forget it. So, I decided to ask what everyone else felt like was going on just out of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why are some men jerks to the girl they liked?
The guy was madly in love with me to the point of following/trying to meet me in every hour. Not like he talked, but more like look from far and admire. I decided to talk to him. More of confront but politely. I asked him...
Anonymous
(18-24) My old crush who liked me why did he react this way?
im kinda talking to this guy and i was talking to my bestfriend as we were walking by and passing my old dude he was a jerk who was always staring and still is as of now, but he always stares even after rude things he has...
Anonymous
(Under 18) Is it bad that the guy I met is shorter than me?
So I’ve always had this mindset that I need a guy that’s taller than me. I am 5’11” in a half. I only want men taller than me. My friends said I need to get rid of that mindset of needing a man taller than me and give...
Anonymous
(25-29) Dating Tips for Women
I've written my dating tips for guys already, so to follow up, here are my tips for women. As I mentioned with the last post, with any advice, take it or leave it! You don't have to believe as I do, it's just opinions...
Anonymous
(36-45) The guy I had a crush on is a jerk why can’t I move on?
He was dismissive which is worse than yelling and screaming
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is it worse if a man is a jerk to us vs if we were total biotches to a man?
I'm all for calling out bad, trashy behavior on both genders. No one deserves to get humiliated and treated poorly. However, people tend to react differently. I once saw a guy humiliating a young woman to the point she...
Danielle93
Guru Age: 33 This guy who was a jerk to me I feel really bad does this mean I am hurt or that I have a crush on him?
Why would I care? I do feel though I know he’s not a nice person
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is he acting like a jerk to my bestfriends but nice to me?
So there's this guy that I like at my school... We never really talked to each other directly... But I've had a crush on him the DAY i met him. He's a really sweet guy and he's really kind to people, he's really...
Shenaya
Xper 1 Age: 16 