I'm all for calling out bad, trashy behavior on both genders. No one deserves to get humiliated and treated poorly. However, people tend to react differently.
I once saw a guy humiliating a young woman to the point she was on the verge of tears (both seem 18-20 years old) and not even his good friends took his side. Before I was about to say anything, he was already getting called out on his bs by both genders. No one found it funny.
Switch things around and if it's the woman doing that to a young man... and the young man walks away humiliated, less people call her out on her trashy behavior. Why is it worse when a man does that vs if we were doing that?