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He proceeded to tell me about the health issues he experienced over the weekend, one of which most would be a bit shyer (pink eye) about disclosing to others. I've always wondered as there's always been little hints of something - like when with others & getting lunch, he went with my suggestion not his then girlfriend's, etc.

I was listening to some random short where three guys I'd never heard before were singing a song, and I got chills, something that happens a lot with me. So I googled, and it's called "music frisson." It is the sudden rush of emotions that some people experience when listening to music that evokes emotion. The French word frisson means "shiver" or "aesthetic chills".

Researchers have figured out this phenomenon happens to about ~55% of the population and is linked the pleasurable centers of the brain responding to things like introduction to different textures in songs, a new voice in a song, solo instrument emerging from a softer orchestral background, etc.

I watch true crime where the ex lovers of these serial killers talk about how love made them do stupid things, these killers showed really early on they were trouble & these women continued to stay with them because they were so in love with these guys. 29F & being under the impression that I have an avoidant attachment style, over the years I’ve ended “friendships” when I grew tired of dealing with their behaviors that didn’t sit well with me. I have a habit of letting things build up & just eventually ice them out vs confronting them early on. Not to mention, when guys showed earlier on during the talking stages that they may have ways about them that don’t sit well with me, I’ll end it from going any further. Someone I saw very briefly in my early twenties previously dated a girl that was probably bipolar & put him through shit, I would make comments like how I couldn’t believe he still stayed with her through all of that. And he pretty much implied I can’t understand why he did that because I’ve never been in love. I hate being spoken down to, condescension results in me dipping out asap. Again, I pump the brakes in any kind of interpersonal relationship. Am I naive in assuming I’m this way because I just have a strong personality? Or is it because I haven’t met the person that has me so enamored & it results in me being strung along? Thoughts? Similar experiences?