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Is it weird for a 26 year old girl date a younger guy?
I’m 26 but I never had a serious boyfriend. So I’m unexperienced. It would suit me have a younger guy that never had a girlfriend like me.
I dated one guy that was 32 before but he was a man child, immature, and didn’t want to meet family or attend family parties or holidays with me. So it wasn’t a real offical relationship I guess even tho he acted as if he was my boyfriend and wasted my time.

I don’t like older guys 26-35 as they will say had many serious relationships and not looking for another serious relationship rn. So i don’t mind having a younger guy as a first boyfriend.
also it’s red flag for me for a guy 28-30s and single as most men that age are married settled down and if he’s not settled down it means he’s fuckboy.

I think a coworker was flirting with me. I caught him checking me out a few times and before Christmas he strikes up a conversation with me and tried to extend it during the entire shift. He also kept asking me questions about my plans for the night, weekend, my living situation and offered several times that day to drive me home since we live in the same neighborhood. I had a feeling he was flirting with me because he seemed genuinely curious and always agreed with everything I said as if he wanted me to approve of him.

About 4 weeks later he came into my office (wearing pretty much cologne) even though there were plenty of empty rooms available so I figured he might like me a bit. But that day he was very busy and very disinterested in the conversation as if he tried to make the point that I’m not his type. Later he disclosed that his girlfriend was about to move into his apartment.

Now my questions are:

did he actually flirt the first time or was he just trying to be nice to a new acquaintance?

And if he did, why would he try to suck up to me if he already has a relationship and then pull back and act super disinterested in me?