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Would you mind if your boyfriend were to go everywhere (e. g. markets, streets, restaurants etc) barefoot.

I lost my hair at 19 and shaved my head. Well turns out I have a skin condition that affects the scalp and really messes up the skin there so shaved isn’t going well either. I bought a very quality wig that is indistinguishable from real hair, even to the touch. I must emphasize good wigs you truly can’t tell. I’m very open about it, coworkers and others all know I wear it and I’m not insecure about it. I wear a wig, so what? I like how I look in it, no different that extensions or hair dye or makeup etc. everyone around me is astounded to know it’s fake and very chill about it. Honestly I think just being open about it is what helps, hiding and being way too protective if it gives off the insecure vibe.

anyway what are your thoughts?

I’m not a simp. I was a genuine “nice guy” to women when I was younger but I got brutalized for it one too many times. I grew much more callous over the years and developed a radar for bs.

I also had a few controlling women feel confident that I would their “whipped” man. However to their surprise I proved them wrong pretty quickly and got out it fast.

Anyway if I determine if a woman has no respect for me I will cut off all association with them and never turn back. I might cut her some slack in the beginning and take a while to get to that decision. But once I make my decision I will stick with it. I will never understand women like a Don Juan but I can figure it out quickly nowadays if they respect me or not. I rather be a loner than a chump. I rather be by myself and still have self respect.

But I have a deep devil’s advocate question here. I have a few friends and family members who tolerate more abuse from their wives than they should. But they still have their marriages, companionship and sex.

Can it be worth it for some guys to be trapped in this situation given they still have a woman? I expect a resounding no response (and that’s my response as well). But it could it be the lesser of two evils?