they call us gold diggers for not being attracted to broke losers , u want to be attracted to a man who doesn't have ambition and who always complains? Broke guys themselves judge women for that , but women don't shame a man for being "shallow" and that doesn't pick an ugly woman and that only chooses a woman based off her looks
why people don't admit that certain things turn off the opposite gender?
women aren't attracted by men who can't provide and men aren't attracted to ugly/fat women
so why do men say we're gold diggers for going for what we are biologically wired to go for?
Successful men present their masculinity by their achievements and confidence while broke guys with poor mentality don't present anything of that
and yeah being attracted to a guy bc of his money isn't wrong , same as being attracted to a woman bc of her looks , now ofc that's the initial part and the personality is important , but this whole thing im talking about is the first attraction that happens between a man and a woman and there's nothing wrong with being "shallow" or a "gold digger"
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