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One of my closest reconnected friends F21 recently told me something that happened to her by her boyfriend of two years. He has been doing sexual acts to her without asking for months and recently has been putting his genitals in her bottom and not lubricating or saying anything at all. Like not even asking if it’s okay.. she hasn’t said anything because she’s afraid to. She’s very shy and shuts down when things like this that are horrible happen. I told her this isn’t okay and that you should both be on the same page of what’s happening sexually between each other. They’ve been having other issues besides this also. She said he was very rough during it and she bled also. She’s struggling with understanding that it is considered as SA. I wanted to take a pole to see what other woman think. She needs to hear others opinions besides mine as I’m the only one who knows. Also advice on how to help her through this would be much needed too. Thank you.

If you have ever cheated on a partner in a committed relationship, did you eventually confess to your relationship partner? If so, why did you confess? Was it guilt? Were you afraid that it would eventually be discovered and then it would be even worse? Did you end the cheating affair before you confessed? After the confession, did your relationship end?

Was your cheating affair eventually discovered by your relationship partner? If so, did you then end the cheating affair? After it was discovered, did your relationship end?

If your cheating affair was never revealed, did your relationship end? Did you end it because of guilt? Did you end it because you wanted to be with your affair partner?