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One of my closest reconnected friends F21 recently told me something that happened to her by her boyfriend of two years. He has been doing sexual acts to her without asking for months and recently has been putting his genitals in her bottom and not lubricating or saying anything at all. Like not even asking if it’s okay.. she hasn’t said anything because she’s afraid to. She’s very shy and shuts down when things like this that are horrible happen. I told her this isn’t okay and that you should both be on the same page of what’s happening sexually between each other. They’ve been having other issues besides this also. She said he was very rough during it and she bled also. She’s struggling with understanding that it is considered as SA. I wanted to take a pole to see what other woman think. She needs to hear others opinions besides mine as I’m the only one who knows. Also advice on how to help her through this would be much needed too. Thank you.
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Unless she has been drugged, unless she is mentally challenged, unless she has a disability that prevents her from reacting to that rape, then I don't really believe that this has actually happened the way you state.
Any person with all her cognitive functions or physical abilities would have attempted to escape to that rape and would have pressed charge against the sexual perpetrator.
Something is definitely fishy in your story and I honestly don't believe this actually happened.
Yes it is is sexual assault and the victim would have gone to the police first thing after the rape. That simply did not happen the way you state it.
It did happen and it has been happening for months. We just started being friends again six months ago and she still is struggling to understand he assaulted her. She thinks it’s “not that bad.” My friend does not speak up for herself and just goes blank and doesn’t defended herself ever. If I would have known, I would have taken it to the police. We just found out he did this to another girl and I’m trying to get through to her. If it wasn’t a true story, I would have never posted it.
Not everyone reacts quickly and not everyone’s body defends themselves. So many sexual assaults go untold and just brushed under the rug like this because the person is scared to speak up or refuses to aknowledge it happened to them until years later. This isn’t a joke and this post isn’t fake. This is her boyfriend and her first everything. She’s very naive also so no, not everyone would run to the police.
“He has been doing sexual acts to her without asking for months.”
How is that even possible? Is he tying her up each time? Is she being kept locked up somewhere?
He drags her to a room and takes her clothes off and does whatever he pleases. she's not being locked up, no. Just anytime he’s near her this is what he does to her.
He never ask and they’ve never had a conversation about it and she’s too freaked out to say anything at all.
I would have reported him to the police a long time ago.
If I would have known earlier, I would have. Problem is there’s no proof physically
You don't need it.
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Absolutely it is. That’s horrible.
It’s very horrible. I hope I can help her through this.