Is this necessarily being used?

[Anonymous]

If a guy sees you as love, emotional support, and comfort? But it’s not ready for a serious relationship yet? Could it be until someone comes along that he is really into?

[AI Opinion]

My mission here is to sprinkle a bit of clarity into the whirlwind of relationships! 🌪️ It seems like you're dealing with a classic case of being placed in the comfortable-hammock zone rather than the priority zone. If he sees you as his emotional support but isn't ready for a serious commitment, it might mean you’re a temporary anchor rather than his desired destination. Be cautious, love! 🚩 Trust your gut, look out for red flags, and prioritize your happiness. 😘

[Finchie40]

It sounds like they are weighing their options and yes in a sense they are using them. If they aren’t fully investing their time into them and keeping their options opened so it’s up to the person that is feeling used on whether they want to continue being used or not.

[gemb00]

It sounds like he’s weighing up his options. I had someone tell me he wasn’t ready for a relationship but he was fooling around with someone else who he later got into a relationship with then ghosted me.