Why does this mean?

[Anonymous]

There is this man, who always compliments me on my fitness, says how fit you are repeatedly. I saw him staring at my body too. Also he is kinda flirty with me. And he doesn’t leave a chance to touch me- my hand, shoulder, back, head, whenever he gets the chance So saying that repeatedly and doing those things is a part of flirting?

[20yearsolder]

Yes, if you're interested in him, why don't you flirt back?

[Asker]

Lol why would say that?

[20yearsolder]

Why wouldn't I say that? Answer my question. Are you interested in him?

[Asker]

I feel attracted to him. It’s been 6 years i have crush on him. And anyone had told me 6 years ago that this person is gonna behave like this, I wouldn’t have believed lol

[20yearsolder]

So maybe I'm not understanding your question, does he touch your hand and shoulder and back?

[Asker]

Yes he does

[20yearsolder]

And do you like it? If you do then I don't know where you're from but that's seems to come across this flirting. So be a little forward and if you get the opportunity you touch his hand, If you walk up on him, place your hand on the small of his back

[Asker]

Where you’re from- meaning?

[20yearsolder]

Different countries flirt differently

[20yearsolder]

I've seen it a million times on here, we made eye contact, we held our gaze for 10 seconds, I'm sure that he is into me

[Asker]

Okay got it. Not sure if he is into me. But i have seen him with other females also. He doesn’t do anything like he does with me. I smile when he does something flirty, also unknowingly I start to blush. Also he is my dr🙈

[20yearsolder]

Well how often do you see your doctor? How often do you see him interact with other females? Go for it. If you're interested in the man then do whatever it takes to achieve what you want

[Asker]

Its been more than 6 years now since he is my doctor. He ussd behave normally with me. But something is different this time. I had visited him more than 13-14 times since the last teo moths. Some of related to my treatments. His assistant is a female he behaves normal with her, have seen with other female patients he behaved normally. He did all those things while treating me. Also he asked me upfrontly on whatsapp if I am feeling okay, now this is not something that every doctor does, I mean he can’t go and text every other patient and asks how they feel, right?

[20yearsolder]

Well I'm guessing he could ask you every patient if they're doing okay. I have no idea what you're being treated for. If a female comes in for the common cold, he's not going to ask them on WhatsApp how they're doing. Typically he probably sees a female patient once a year. He's seen you that many times in 2 months. He's become very familiar with you, maybe that's why he is so comfortable with you.

[Asker]

He has treated me for RC. He is a dentist. He has treated my father for a serious surgery but he never asked him on whatsapp how he is doing. Besides that, i have seen him telling people to call him in case of any emergency, but for me he asks me to text him, in case of emergency.

[20yearsolder]

You can believe whatever you want, okay so now your doctor's into you. What are you going to do about it? You would have to give him signs that you're interested as well. Once again, do whatever it takes to show him that you're interested

[Asker]

But touching me again and again or giving the compliments, shows he is being flirty right?
If yes, will show some signs to him.
But I feel he already knows, as I am not opposing his this behaviour. Nit sire though

[20yearsolder]

Let's just go with, yes he's flirting with you. Try to have a conversation outside of the dentist chair.

[Asker]

That’s a good idea. Will take it slower. Anyway I Will be having some more visits with him. Even my father will have some visits at him, will go with as well. :p

[Wise4myage]

Its non verbal flirting, but he's doing way to much of it. And he does like you.

[Asker]

Even the compliments on fitness and all too?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, absolutely.